I’m a male member, and I’d appreciate some advice on “Universe syndrome.”
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I think it’s because I always offer 10 or more, including to Gold women, but so far, things have progressed to adult relationships with every woman I’ve met. However, I can only set aside about eight days a month at most for adult dates, so if I make a new offer, I either have to reduce the number of times I see women I’m already in an adult relationship with or say goodbye to them.
I assume many of the male respondents here have gone through this, but in the end, do you simply become an egotist, tell yourself, “I’m a terrible person who casually throws away women from my past,” accept it, and keep making new offers?
I know the simple solution is to stop making new offers, but whenever I see a woman who catches my eye on the member page, I just can’t stop myself from making an offer.
I keep making new offers while rationalizing it with this ridiculous logic:
“If I cut ties with women from my past, that just means a new woman gets a chance, so I shouldn’t worry about it.”
At the same time, I think, “I really am the worst,” and feel remorseful, yet I still end up making new offers.
Sorry, this isn’t really much of a question.
I’d actually like the female respondents to berate me by saying, “You’re a horrible bastard who doesn’t value women!” I’m fully aware that I’m the worst.
At the same time, for the male members who are infected with Universe syndrome, what kind of mindset do you have when dealing with it?
I’m Aya, a female member.
Given how Universe works, I figure there are bound to be men like that—probably quite a few, actually.
A lot of men naturally want to be with many beautiful women, after all. My papa doesn’t seem to be making any new offers, but I calmly assume he probably has those desires too. As long as he doesn’t pass anything on to me or reduce my allowance, I have no problem with it. Best of luck with your club activities.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Marika, I may be your last one.
No one has reached out to me either, so you can still make new offers. Try different experiences and then stay with the person who makes you feel the best for the longest.
I look forward to your offer.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
What a terrifying illness.
For my Tanabata wish, I’ve decided to write:
“May my beloved papa never come down with Universe disease…”
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I’ll answer too—Maezawa from the CEO’s office.
> Sorry, I guess this isn’t really a question.
Hmm?
Are you saying you want it hidden because it isn’t actually a question?
“I wrote such a long post, only for it to be hidden… the thrill of it all…”
I’m not quite sure whether you’re that kind of person, but there were already so many answers that I’m sorry I couldn’t hide it.
> I’d really like the female respondents to shower me with abuse, saying, “You’re the worst kind of bastard—you don’t value women at all!”
You want people to insult you?
You’re a pretty demanding person.
If you made that many offers, I would have thought at least one person would have taken you up on it. But if you go to an SM club, you’ll probably have your wish fulfilled much more reliably.
Also, if the reason you feel like making new offers is that you’re worried about the women you’ve been seeing so far, then why not invite each of them on one final date and pay them ¥1 million as a parting gift?
If you tell them, “Please insult me one last time,” I imagine they’d be willing to, since you’re paying them ¥1 million.
In the old 2channel style, should we call this questioner
“Mr. 7512,”
or something?
Mr. 7512…
Maybe that’s too many digits.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I think there are many different ways to enjoy a club. If you’re only aroused—and can only get it up—when you’re with someone new, then you’re paying a sufficient allowance. As long as you handle things properly when you can no longer meet, you’re not breaking any rules. There are also cases where the male member wants to continue, but the woman doesn’t. I don’t think that makes you the worst.
As a man, I completely understand wanting to be intimate with lots of different women. That’s what dating clubs are for—you pay for the relationships. Like Kazu, I made offers nonstop for about six months after joining, like a randy monkey. But in my case, whenever I met someone new, I’d come across women who:
- were overwhelmingly better than the others, and
- wanted to continue seeing me as well.
So my favorites naturally settled into a regular rotation. After that, it became natural to make a new offer whenever I said goodbye to one of my favorites.
You’re fascinating, questioner. If you’re willing, please take things as far as you can and publish the details as a column. You seem to have plenty of financial resources, so I’d love to see you set a new record for the most offers at the club. It’s impressive. I’ll be cheering you on.
That said, I’d appreciate it if you could leave out women whose profiles say, “I’m looking for a long-term relationship.” They’d only be hurt otherwise. You seem like an ideal supporter for female members who receive few or no offers.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
That’s a pretty good question（笑）
“I keep wanting to make more offers.”
I know exactly how you feel.
During my first year, I couldn’t stop wanting to make offers, either.
The way I see it, making offers to a large number of women gives them more opportunities to find a partner, so it’s certainly a good thing for the women registered with the club—and for Universe, which introduces them.
On the other hand, from the women’s perspective, dating clubs can start to feel like relationships never last or that they’re similar to the adult entertainment industry. So I don’t think most women want a constant stream of short-term encounters, except for those specifically looking for that.
Now, about this “Universe addiction”（笑）:
Why not establish your own dating style and proceed accordingly?
Consider what motivated you to join the dating club, what kind of women and relationship style you’re looking for, and how much time and money you can devote to dating. Then find an arrangement that leaves both you and your partners reasonably satisfied.
In my case, I decided on my dating style from the beginning. Since I found a partner relatively quickly, I haven’t made any more offers since then.
But then I sometimes wonder whether I might have been better off with one of the registered women I liked, and feel that both she and I may have missed an opportunity. I also feel like I’m not contributing much to the club at all. It’s complicated（笑）
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I’m in Seattle.
Without people like you, Universe Club wouldn’t make any money. Thanks for contributing to its performance and keeping the company in business.
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I’m Papercraft, a male member.
Rather than “Universe disease,” I’d call it “adult-entertainment disease.”
If all you want is to be with attractive girls, then there’s no need to change anything.
But if you offer up to 5 to every girl, regardless of her membership class, you’ll find out which girls are happy to meet you—and which ones you have good conversational and personal chemistry with.
I think it would help to clarify your purpose, even just a little.
> Always offering 10 or more, including to Gold members
For example, try always offering 5 or less, including to Black members.
That way, you’ll probably only end up seeing girls you genuinely click with. And if you have especially good chemistry, you may not even need to offer an allowance.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Maybe I’m wrong, but do you feel that many women are trying to look good by offering 100, even though it’s “not worth it”?
I think it would be better to either lower the allowance to an amount that feels worthwhile, or ask for something that matches the 100.
That seems healthier to me.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Sorry to interrupt while you’re getting excited about indulging your particular fetish, but before this so-called “Universe disease,” you strike me as someone with a submissive, masochistic streak who wants to be verbally abused by women.
I think the proper way to enjoy that kind of play is to ask a woman you’re giving a generous allowance to. Expecting a female respondent to indulge you for free is just too cheap（笑）
To answer your question, for the first two or three months after joining, I repeatedly made offers like a monkey and sometimes went on two or three dates a day. But then I realized it was more meaningful and enjoyable to spend time with women I’d grown close to, so these days I only make about zero to two offers a month. I think once you have a few women you’ve become close with, things naturally settle down.
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