Do staff comments on women’s profiles ever say something like, “She’s a B type leaning toward C”?

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. The staff will probably ask, “Which two were you torn between, A and C?” So if you answer as though you were really torn between A and C, that’s probably what they’ll write down. You can see it in the video, too. Or you could answer C at first, then correct it to B. Ahhhhhh, I hate this— I really hate that it’s a video made after studying in advance… I ended up becoming part of it… I’m sorry.

I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this too. It’s strange how men call it a “dating-type scam” when they invite you to an adult relationship and get turned down, but never say that when the woman agrees. If you’re hoping for an adult relationship from the first meeting despite choosing Type B, then you’re actually committing a dating-type scam yourself. And because women like that exist, even women who want to have dinner and leave after the first meeting get pressured by men who repeatedly ask: “Why not?” “Why can’t you?” “Come on, let’s go after this.” “If you won’t, that means you’re Type A, right?” “That’s a scam.” Some men even lie and say things like that. In reality, Type B means leaving after dinner on the first meeting, so it isn’t a scam at all. It’s unpleasant to be pressured like that, and I think it all stems from women who choose Type B even though they’re willing to go further from the first meeting. If you’re willing to go further from the first meeting but might still firmly turn him down, you should choose Type C. With Type C, turning him down is expected—although the assumption is still only around 50%. Type D means you’ll almost never turn him down, though you’re still allowed to say no. If men don’t want to be rejected, they should offer to Type D women. Instead, they offer to Type C women, which is what causes all this confusion. Type D has gradually shifted toward C, and C has shifted toward B, to the point where you have to wonder: what’s even the point of choosing B anymore? Type B is for women who want to leave after dinner on the first meeting and don’t want to be invited into an adult relationship right away. I completely understand choosing B because it feels difficult to say no, but please choose C instead and firmly turn down men you don’t like. Regarding persistent men, the club told me it’s okay to refuse them directly. You could say something as firm as: “Do I really need to explain why? I’d rather not, because I don’t want this to turn into a problem（笑）.” I think it’s fine to be that direct, especially since you’re probably turning them down because you don’t plan to see them again. That said, I know most people probably can’t actually say that, so somehow try to bring things to a close after dinner. Men need to properly understand that Type C means there’s a 50% chance of being turned down. They also need to understand the difference between C and D.

I’m Tetsu, a male member. Recently, staff have often been adding comments explaining why a woman chose her dating type. If you share your views on the different dating types during the interview, I think they’ll include that in the comments as well. In fact, I’ve met several Type B women who had the same outlook as you.

I’m male member date◎yume. Regarding the gray areas around relationship types, I occasionally see staff comments with content like what you’re asking about. As a male member, I assume that men who look at themselves in the mirror and think, “Maybe I have a chance?” are the ones who actively try for Type B. Personally, I think it’s fine as long as women clearly indicate whether or not they’re open to an adult relationship (intimate). Apparently, women can decide how they feel about an adult relationship based on their impression at the first meeting, so I have no issue with Type B as long as it isn’t someone who has no intention of an adult relationship and simply drags things out indefinitely. The club also asks during the interview and when explaining the relationship types whether things can progress within a certain period. So, even if it takes a while, I think it’s fine as long as things progress to an adult relationship by around the fourth or fifth meeting at the latest. I just want to be spared the essentially Type A women who keep dragging things out indefinitely.

I think it’s fine to invite someone from the first day if you’re looking for a B arrangement. But lately, quite a few people have been getting upset, saying, “I was looking for B, but he invited me on the first day.” Some “gentlemanly” male members even say they won’t pursue anything that day, even if the woman invites them, when she’s listed as B. It’s difficult to communicate this in your profile, but if you think there won’t be a second meeting anyway when he turns out to be an unpleasant older man, wouldn’t it be better to list yourself as C? Apparently, the types of men you attract differ between B and C, so maybe it’s best to stay with B and wait until the second meeting or later. Marika