I’m in my 30s and recently registered.
In a club with many younger women, what kind of appeal would work best for someone in her 30s to stand out from the competition and be chosen?
I feel that as you get older, you tend to appeal more through an adult relationship (intimate) or a more alluring, sophisticated image, but those approaches aren’t really suited to me.
That said, I imagine a woman in her 30s trying to appeal through her purity would seem a little odd. Everyone has different preferences, of course, but I feel I need to establish a somewhat consistent character, so I wanted to ask for advice.
I would be grateful to hear your opinions.
Maezawa from the president’s office here with an answer as well.
> I thought I needed to establish a fairly clear character, so I wanted to ask for advice.
Just because everyone is in their 30s doesn’t mean they’ll all have the same character. It varies from person to person.
So I think it’s difficult to say exactly what kind of character you should adopt.
It really depends on what kind of person you are and which aspects of yourself you want to highlight.
If you have a refined, wholesome vibe, for example, you could go with that kind of image.
If you have a more alluring vibe, I think you should play that up instead. Your dating style will probably come into play as well.
I also feel that the photos taken during your interview can give you an idea of how the staff perceive your character.
You could shape your image around that, too.
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Young women aren’t necessarily your competition.
Quite a few men in their 40s, 50s, and older say they’re not comfortable with girls who are too young, or that they feel embarrassed when it’s blatantly obvious they’re doing papa-katsu.
That’s why it’s important to have a profile that conveys an age-appropriate sense of calm and makes them want to talk with you.
I wasn’t doing this at all myself, but it seems that creating a strategic profile aimed at a specific demographic can be effective.
Good luck creating a profile that makes the most of your personality.
Marika
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
For many men, a woman’s 30s are her prime—an especially irresistible age when she’s full of charm.
That natural, effortless vibe you give off can be absolutely captivating to men.
Rather than overthinking or trying to calculate everything, I think it’s best to find someone who naturally clicks with you, since that will be the least stressful.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Rather than focusing on beating the other female members—the “invisible enemies”—why not develop your strategy around meeting men’s needs?
First, take a look here ↓ Decide which age and income groups you want to target, then come up with a strategy that appeals to them.
https://universe-club.jp/women/introduct/
I’ve also written a column on this topic, so please use it as a reference.
https://universe-club.jp/column/onanamireport1
I think this column by Mizushima may be helpful as well.
https://universe-club.jp/female/6628/
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Everyone has their own preferences, so I don’t think there’s any one right answer. Generally speaking, though, I think the appeal of women in their 30s is that they’re still young, but have more to offer than youth alone. For example, they may be calm and worldly, have a wide range of conversation topics, or pursue a hobby and be fairly good at it.
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