For a first meeting with a papa, would you wear heels if he’s under 170 cm tall?
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I’m 153 cm tall myself, so I think the only males shorter than me are children. However, wearing heels would bring me to around 160 cm, and with someone shorter, we’d be roughly eye-to-eye. I’m wondering whether that might make him feel uncomfortable.
I know it probably depends on the person, and it may be safest not to wear heels. But if I want to make my otherwise ordinary figure look even a little better, I feel like heels would be the better choice...
I’m a little torn.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
I think it should be fine as long as you’re roughly the same height.
If you’d end up taller than him, though, you might want to adjust your heels so you don’t tower over him.
That said, some men don’t care about height, so I think you can casually feel him out.
For the first meeting, I think high heels are a good choice to show off your figure—though they can be tough to walk in.
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Apparently, some people do mind when their partner is taller than they are. They say it feels a little strange being looked down on from above.
I usually wear flat shoes rather than high heels—ballet flats, like Repetto.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
First of all, 153 cm is actually tall for the short-height category. If you’re worried about being short, you’d need to bring someone in the 140s at the very least, or it won’t make much of an impact.
Sure, some people might care if you’re taller than the other person, but if you’re the same height or shorter, it’s normally fine. Saying they won’t be satisfied unless the woman’s eyes are considerably lower—isn’t that just some kind of power trip? And if a guy under 170 cm is fixated on this and deliberately chooses shorter women, he’s arguably quite a pervert himself（笑）
I think wearing heels is perfectly fine. Once you get closer, you could even suggest, “Would it be okay if I came in flats?” I was happy when someone said that to me. I’m sure there are quite a few others who feel the same way.
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I’m a little taller than you, but I’d still wear them.
Besides, if you’re in the 150 cm range, do you really worry about that? I think you’re overthinking it a bit.
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