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Jun 3, 2021 23:47
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I’m not very assertive, but I worked up the courage, received ¥20,000 for the medication, and will be going to the hospital tomorrow.
I’ve been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for three years, yet I still couldn’t make a decision like this on my own. I’m truly grateful to everyone who helped me.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this as well.
> He told me, “I pulled out, so it’s fine—I’ll take responsibility!”
Hmm…
That means he took it off himself, right? Without your consent.
If so, I think he’s someone you can’t trust.
For example, even if you agreed to something like, “Going without a condom is okay, but don’t finish inside,” he’d still do it.
That makes him an extremely dangerous person.
And “I’ll take responsibility” would probably just be empty words—in reality, he’d run away.
So, if you understand that and still believe you can control him, then continuing to see him may be an option.
But you should recognize that he’s many times more dangerous than an average man.
You might want to think carefully about ways to protect yourself while continuing to see him, such as taking birth control pills without telling him. If you tell him, I think he may escalate.
If you have the option, though, I’d recommend not seeing him.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
That was quite an ordeal. Still, it’s good that you were able to get the money from him in your initial response. The question is what to do next. He’ll do it again—I’d bet on it.
First, decide where you stand. If you really don’t want to see him again, you don’t have to. But if you’d still like to meet him otherwise, make it clear beforehand that you won’t go without protection, and get him to commit to that.
Even then, I think there’s a chance that guy may do it again. Based on what you’ve shared, I’d say the odds are about fifty-fifty. Watch how he responds when you discuss it, then make your own judgment about the likelihood. If you ask for advice here, I’m sure everyone will support you.