If I had to name one, I guess making money is my hobby—papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is my hobby too.
Do any of you have something you’re really passionate about?
I don’t have much fun in my life, and I’m worried I might become dependent on a papa (a male supporter) if I do papa-katsu, so I’m looking for a hobby I might be able to enjoy too.
I’m Aya, a female member.
I’m not really into any hobbies either, and I used to worry about that a little.
But after reading the novelist Ryu Murakami’s book *In Praise of Having No Hobbies*, where he writes, “Basically, hobbies are for old people. True fulfillment and a sense of achievement can only be found in work,” my perspective changed.
These days, I only work and do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I feel fulfilled every day. Since I get to do what I love for work, I feel a strong sense of satisfaction and excitement. Work is so enjoyable that I don’t feel the need to look for a hobby. I also enjoy papa-katsu because I get to meet people I like and earn money at the same time. So I’m just like you, in that respect.
If I had to name something, I watch live streams on YouTube and the like at home, but I don’t really consider that a hobby—it’s more just a way to kill time—so I don’t think it’s anything worth telling people about.
So perhaps you don’t need to force yourself to find a hobby either. For now, why not focus on saving up the money you love so much?
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I’m in Seattle.
My hobbies are papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and gaming. As for anal play, only once a year because it hurts.
How about investing in stocks? Saving money is the best thing you can do. My goal is to reach ¥100 million.
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Papa-katsu is a hobby of mine too (lol).
I wonder if I could have even better H with my current favorite… Since she hasn’t reached H yet, maybe someday I can get her there… Or maybe I could meet an even better girl through a new offer? ^_^
My favorite female member loves food, and I do too, so I’ve been looking up highly rated restaurants online that serve her favorite dishes, picking them out, and visiting them together one by one. We talked about rating them ourselves, and we’re working our way through the list.
As everyone who answered has said, if you find something fun that you and your papa can both get really into, he’ll be happy too, your relationship will grow deeper, and the person asking this question may even find a hobby they can enjoy passionately without spending money (lol). It’s all good!
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I have so many hobbies that I never have enough time.
If I had more time, there are so many things I’d love to get back into.
I’d recommend taking up a childhood hobby again and finding things you can enjoy with your papa (a male supporter).
Marika
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
If I shared a hobby I could talk about openly, I’d probably reveal my identity, so I’ll only mention hobbies I can’t tell people about.
Prostate play (anal). I’m into aneros play. I use an Aneros.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
> If I had to name one, making money is my hobby.
In that case, why not try different ways of making money and keep track of them until you have enough data?
If you could even analyze things like, “This approach has these advantages, but this part isn’t so good,” and had plenty of stories like that to share, I think it would be interesting to listen to you talk.
> I’m looking for a hobby that I might be able to get into too.
Why not start by trying all kinds of things?
Surfing
Water skiing
Scuba diving
Golf
Marathons
Mountain climbing
Cars
Motorcycles
Trains
Airplanes
Working out
Visiting cake shops
Visiting cafés
Ramen tours
Soba noodle shop tours
There are plenty of possibilities.
You never know what you’ll really get into, so try a variety of things.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I have quite a few hobbies.
Why not find a hobby you and your papa have in common and enjoy it together? I get the impression that women often say they’d like to try diving or golf. If your papa is into diving or golf too, he might be willing to pay for it.
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