I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this one too.
I don’t think people like that can be changed. They probably have some preconceived notions, or their past experiences have shaped the way they think.
For example, maybe they once happened to slap a woman on the cheek. She initially said she didn’t like it, but gradually got used to it and ended up saying she was glad he slapped her.
After hearing a story like that, they might assume every woman is the same.
I think they’re simply incapable of understanding that people are different, so I doubt they’ll ever change.
That’s why, the moment he slaps you or does something you don’t like, you should stop things immediately.
First, I think it would be fine to give him something like a flying kick.
Unless you do something that extreme, he may not understand that you really don’t like it. That said, a woman probably can’t inflict serious damage on a man with a flying kick, so an average woman should be fine giving it her all.
If you really want to hurt him, aim for the groin. You may or may not hit the target, but it’s worth trying.
(Though in this case, don’t jump.)
Also, throwing a feint punch with your hand before kicking can make it easier to land the kick. The trick is to move your punching hand in a way that creates momentum for the kick. Since it’s only a feint, it doesn’t matter if the punch doesn’t connect.
That said, a punch feint is difficult unless you’re standing, so it isn’t very practical.
The best option might be to squeeze his private parts—his testicles—with all your strength.
That should make him stop what he’s doing for a moment. It might even be more effective than kicking.
If he says, “Ow, ow, ow! That hurts,”
you can say,
“It hurts me too.”
Hopefully, that will bring the conversation to a satisfactory conclusion…
I’m Taro, a male member.
It’s perfectly fine to cut things off normally. If you can put up with it that much, you could do just fine in the adult entertainment industry. In fact, it’s more respectable than this—except for the BDSM side of things.
There are many different types of adult entertainment, so you could choose something based on what you are and aren’t comfortable with and try a trial shift. That way, you’ll have something to compare it with.
If you meet a good person through a dating club, things can be relaxed and work out nicely, so I hope you’ll keep looking until you find someone good.
I’m Papercraft, a male member.
That sounds like an extremely difficult and painful situation.
Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is supposed to involve a man treating a woman well and making her feel happy and comfortable, while both of them enjoy their compatibility. With the right man, it should feel more enjoyable than painful for the woman…
But since this man lacks both awareness and consideration, and is the complete opposite of what she wants, I doubt he’ll be able to improve.
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
People who jump to conclusions don’t seem to change easily, though… Still, rather than simply saying you dislike something, try playfully telling him what you’d like him to do. He might be more willing to listen（笑）. Acting a little sulky might work too.
Please keep the relationship comfortable and manageable.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Unfortunately, I don’t think that man’s behavior will change unless you clearly express your discomfort and firmly reject him. As long as there are women like you who put up with it, men like that will only continue to behave worse.
