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May 27, 2021 02:13
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here—I’ll answer as well.
If something happened in your private life, I don’t think it’s necessarily a sign of an impending breakup. However, depending on how you handle things from here, it could still end up leading to a separation.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Since we only meet occasionally—about once a month—I think it’s the kind of relationship where neither of us would mind much whether it continues or ends.
I don’t think you need to overthink it.
As long as neither of you gets dropped from the other’s list of priorities, I imagine the relationship will continue.
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a relationship columnist.
I’ve never been dumped by a woman once a relationship has started, so I can’t really say I know the warning signs. But to me, it’s important to be able to spend time together even when someone’s feeling low or not very energetic.
So I don’t take it too badly when the other person is feeling down. I actually dislike it more when she forces herself to act upbeat.
That said, this assumes that I’m not the reason she’s feeling that way.
In this case, I’m not sure what’s causing it, but I would first:
① Match her lower energy by speaking more calmly and slowing down the pace a little.
② Then gently say something like, “You seem less energetic than usual, and I’m worried I might be the reason. I’m really sorry.”
That should help you get at least some idea of why she’s feeling down.
I’d think about how to deal with it after figuring out the cause.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
That sounds like a sign that things are coming to an end. Once a month is too infrequent to really become close.
You may be better off narrowing it down to someone you both feel like seeing about twice a month.