Before I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I used to visit them all the time, and I thought I’d finally be able to stop. But when I’m out and suddenly get in the mood, I end up checking City Heaven and going to one of the venues.
Dates with women in papa-katsu require a fair amount of preparation beforehand (though of course, that’s part of the fun), so I’ve analyzed it as being because I end up going to adult entertainment venues, which I can use instantly when the urge strikes impulsively. How should I find a balance between the two?
Sorry for asking what sounds like a Yahoo! Chiebukuro-type question, but I wanted to hear the opinions of everyone at Universe, so I thought I’d ask here.
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
> How should I come to terms with this?
It sounds like you’ve already answered your own question:
“When I’m out and start feeling that way, I end up checking City Heaven and going to a shop.”
I think that’s perfectly fine.
When you’re in that mood, why not just go to an adult entertainment venue?
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
If you go to adult entertainment venues that often, why not just use one…?
Or contact someone you can meet tomorrow or the day after and hold out until then.
I’ve only used those services once every few years, so I don’t really feel like going. I can contact my private girlfriend when I want to meet her, even at short notice, so that’s what I do in those situations.
That said, my dates are already fully booked now, so I can’t do that either.
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I’m in Seattle.
I don’t go to adult entertainment venues anymore.
You could catch something, so it’s better not to go.
I only have ongoing arrangements with a select few women from the club.
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I’m Kazu, a male club member.
Since joining the club, I’ve almost completely stopped using sex services. They’re just boring.
Now I have two women I’ve become close enough with that, when I’m feeling worked up, I can ask them to come over, and they’ll say, “Oh, all right,” while still coming to see me. So I don’t use those services at all anymore.
Also, when the urge comes, it’s now directed toward those women specifically.
I think the solution is to have about two women each who are close enough to come to my main place of stay when they’re free.
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