Tips Apr 19, 2021 15:09

When you’re meeting someone for the first time at the arranged meeting spot, it must be hard not to show your disappointment if an older man who falls far short of your expectations shows up. Do they notice it right away?

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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this too. > An older man who crushes your expectations ??? I don’t think I’ve ever heard anyone say they had high expectations. Are you a man? Or are you a woman who always gets her hopes up? You probably feel nervous when meeting up, but what exactly do you mean? Ah, are you asking what to do if a man who looks unclean and lacks basic grooming shows up? In that case, I think it’s fine to feel disappointed. It’s obvious that you should turn him down after the meal. Just do your best to get through dinner with him. Also, make sure to submit your feedback right away. He might contact the club saying that the woman wasn’t interested, so you need to get ahead of that.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist. Wow, was that today’s offer, given the timing? Could it have been me? I’m Fuu, drowning my sorrows after having my room invitation turned down for the first time in ages. I’m really sorry to shatter your dreams by not being some handsome older guy! Since I’m not an ikemen older guy, I’ll do my best to make up for it with kindness, consideration, never doing anything unpleasant, wrapping things up within four hours, and not sending unnecessary LINE messages (lol). I still have a lot to learn. I was a little out of practice and lacked motivation this time. If today’s PJ was referring to me, I didn’t notice that her expectations had already been crushed when we first met. I thought she was enjoying the meal, but when I invited her to a room, she suddenly said, “My period started today.” Women are amazing actresses. Men really don’t stand a chance. I need to keep training so I can pick up on these things better. Still, I’ve decided to cherish even more the cute, ongoing PJs who say they’re happy to continue seeing me just as I am. My wounded heart will be healed this weekend. Thank you!!
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. How about lowering your expectations? Try staring endlessly at the images that come up when you search for “Tsutenkaku old man.” Some pretty intense pictures show up.
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🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. You’ll get to leave sooner if you let it show on your face.
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シアトル
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. Please forgive me until you open your wallet. I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I’m sorry.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I’m not confident I can come up with anything clever for the comedy prompt, so I’ll pass.
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