I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
> If you think about it normally, of course it seems disrespectful,
It’s only considered disrespectful because monogamy is the norm, and people simply extend that idea to romantic relationships. Legally speaking, though, I don’t think there’s any law saying you can’t have multiple partners.
In other words, it may be considered disrespectful if many people see it that way, but not if most people don’t. I think it’s a rather ambiguous matter.
Some people probably think they should enjoy themselves before marriage, since they’ll have to be with just one person once they’re married.
And if there’s a reason for it, I feel you could also say that it can’t really be helped.
People live according to all kinds of different values. Since you say you have a legitimate reason this time, I think it’s okay to trust yourself.
> How on earth do I get a boyfriend!!! Someone please tell me!!!
I haven’t met you, so I can’t really say, but generally speaking, men are often said to find women who seem too put-together difficult to approach. So the usual advice might be to make yourself seem more approachable.
On the other hand, some people can only appreciate the charm of younger women if they’re older men, so it might be worth looking for someone about ten years older.
Once you start working, there should be quite a few men around thirty, but the tricky part may be making sure you don’t fall for someone who’s married.
Since I haven’t met you, I may be completely off base, though ＞＜
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m not sure whether this is rude to say, but your boyfriend would probably get angry if he found out you were doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). So I think you should just keep it from him.
Everyone has things like that in their lives, to some extent.
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Why not?
That said, if you’re thinking about marrying him, you may want to put the arrangement on hold for a while.
There’s pregnancy, childbirth, and raising children to consider, after all. Once that’s all over, you can always start again（笑).
