The other day, I asked whether the amount a papa spends on a girl is proportional to how much he favors her. https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/6175
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Thank you all for your responses.
As someone mentioned in their answer, the watch my papa gave me was a surprise. He owns several Cartier watches himself, and apparently bought mine at a store he regularly visits. I hardly ever wear accessories, so I was completely surprised and have been flustered, wondering, “Does the price mean he loves me?”
The girl from the lounge had apparently sent him pictures of Van Cleef accessories beforehand, so I think she was asking him to buy one for her. I realized this because I happened to see the notifications on his phone, and since my papa isn’t a fan of Van Cleef, I don’t think he gave it to her as a surprise.
I see him anywhere from twice to five times a week—the apartment I stay in is in my papa’s name—so I hope I’m his favorite… But the fact that he gave the lounge girl accessories after she asked him makes me think there’s probably an adult relationship (intimate) between them and that he must like her quite a lot, which has been bothering me.
But I understand now that frequency is more important than the amount of money. Thank you.
As for the other girls, it’s better not to ask my papa too many questions about them, right…? As a papa-katsu girl, is it better not to mention the things I’ve already figured out? I’d really appreciate any further advice on this, if possible.
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
For some reason, I suddenly came to my senses.
papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) really is an incredible world in so many ways.
Deep, in its own way…
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If he gave you a surprise present, it sounds like he’s taken quite a liking to you.
That said, when it comes to the lounge girl, I get the impression he may have used that present to win her over—or rather, to get her to go along with him once.
Some people say that even a small allowance is too much, but women who know how to handle these relationships are receiving quite a lot. And if a man really wants to win someone over, I suppose he may be willing to pay an amount that would generally be considered quite high.
> It’s better not to ask papa too many questions about the other girls, right…?
I don’t think you should ask. I don’t think it would accomplish anything.
That said, simply not asking while letting him know you’re aware may be okay. But that can be difficult in its own way, so I think pretending not to know is probably best.
Whatever may be going on with other women, if he likes you, the relationship can continue. On the other hand, if he starts thinking you’re being too much trouble, it may come to an end even if he does like you.
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So it was a surprise gift.
It must feel wonderful as a woman to have someone think about what to give you and choose something they know you’ll genuinely like. A man usually wouldn’t go to that much effort unless he was especially fond of you. At most, he’d go shopping with you or ask you beforehand. His desire to surprise you and make you happy is also reflected in how often he makes time to see you.
So yes, you should absolutely let yourself be genuinely delighted. Seeing your reaction will make him very happy too—and motivate him to try even harder next time. Choosing gifts can be pretty difficult, but it’s exciting when you really care.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
It’s probably best not to ask about the allowances or gifts he gives other girls.
From a man’s perspective, the period leading up to getting her to take off her underwear is when he’s most worked up and likely to spend more than usual. So Van Cleef might be the final push to make intimacy happen. In cases like that, it’s not necessarily because he genuinely likes her—he’s simply caught up in the moment and pouring money into it. Once they’ve been intimate, he’ll cool off（笑）
At a bar, the game is how long you can keep a guy hanging while making it seem like something might happen. With papa-katsu, I get the impression that the key is how stable a relationship you can build.
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