“Tell me how babies are made.” “You found out how good sex feels that early?” He said it while strok...

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“Tell me how babies are made.” “You found out how good sex feels that early?” He said it while stroking my stomach during it. It was so disgusting—I want to forget it, but it was so disturbing that I keep remembering it. I have zero motivation for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), even though I’m really struggling financially… How can I clear my mind?

フラグメーカー · Answer

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.

It bothers you because you’re holding back. Go all out and say it in such a loud voice that you’ll crack yourself up:

“I’m gonna put my d*** in your p**** and ejaculate all over the place!! Then we’ll end up with a baby!!”

Say it as loudly and dramatically as you can—so much that you start laughing.

前澤 · Answer

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.

Thanks for your question.

Maybe you could try sitting zazen at a temple and having someone give you a motivational pep talk,

or have your boyfriend take you to Disney Resort,

or occasionally treat yourself by eating as much of your favorite food as you like.

Something along those lines, I suppose.

It might also help to give yourself positive affirmations.

シアトル · Answer

I’m in Seattle.

If I mess this up, I won’t even be able to see handsome guys anymore, lol.

Well, you might as well enjoy those situations too.

カズ · Answer

I’m Kazu, a male member.

People with vivid imaginations may seem creepy to others, but they seem to be enjoying themselves.

If you keep at it, I’m sure you’ll find things you enjoy too. Even if your motivation is a little shaky right now, once you have some good experiences, those unpleasant memories will probably fade over time.

紙ひこうき · Answer

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.

Neither of us is really suited for papa-katsu…

I guess we’re a case of two of a kind… What a shame.

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