Because I don’t get aroused easily, my papa has me wear a remotely controlled toy outside the bedroom—even while eating and walking around outdoors. I meet this papa once every two weeks. Is there really a connection between doing this and becoming more easily aroused? He says it’s something everyone has to go through to become more easily aroused.

I’m Meg, a female member. “Everyone goes through it,” you say!? If everyone were doing that, we’d have a massive traffic jam… lol.

Maezawa from the President’s Office here with an answer. Thank you for your question. > Is there any correlation with becoming more easily aroused? I don’t think anyone has properly researched this, so it’s hard to say whether there is or isn’t. However, since you’re currently going along with it, I assume that although it feels strange, you’re willing to give it a try. In that case, you could simply treat it as part of the play and go along with it. I also get the feeling that your male partner likes the fact that you’re willing to respond even to requests like that. Even if you don’t become more easily aroused after several months, it seems unlikely that you’ll really lose anything. And if you do become more easily aroused, you can just consider it a lucky bonus. If he says you won’t receive an allowance because he made you more easily aroused, I think you should refuse. But if you’re properly receiving your allowance and can accept it as something that feels a little strange but is worth tolerating for the allowance, then I think it’s fine to continue. That said, if you truly hate it and can’t stand it, you should refuse regardless of whether it works. It’s perfectly fine to say that it’s simply too painful or unpleasant for you. You could say, “Please make me more easily aroused through your caresses,” and I don’t think that would necessarily end the relationship. However, men are all different, so if he’s the type who insists that you follow his instructions, I can’t say how he’ll react. Even so, if it’s genuinely painful for you, I don’t think you should put up with it too much.

I’m Tetsu, a male member. I just thought of this while having breakfast. Put some rice in a bowl, top it with a fried egg, drizzle on a little sauce, then break the yolk with chopsticks—and your fried-egg rice bowl is ready. That’s something I do pretty routinely when I have breakfast at a family restaurant, haha. Anyway, I got sidetracked, but what your papa (a male supporter) is doing is about as far from ordinary as a fried-egg rice bowl is, haha. A woman’s difficulty getting wet can be due to her natural constitution, or because the situation isn’t conducive to it. I think it takes a lot of experience to determine the cause. But just because you don’t get wet easily doesn’t mean he should make you squirt. He’s simply indulging his own erotic desires, and you’re being taken advantage of a little.

I’m Taro, a male member. I think that route has pretty light traffic（笑） You might get a better sense by trying it with another man. Hope you get some new offers soon.

He probably finds it irresistibly cute that you actually believe things like that—saying stuff like, “I’ll train you myself.” He’s just enjoying watching you get embarrassed by it; it has absolutely nothing to do with making you get wet more easily. Maybe you’d get wet more easily if you met a wonderful man who caressed you gently. I’m extremely quick to get wet myself, so I don’t really understand women who aren’t and I’m sorry I can’t offer any advice. Marika