Tips Mar 18, 2021 15:39

How many days is it normal to wait after requesting a date setup here?

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I’m a man who recently joined. I requested a setup and am waiting for the other person’s reply. I understand that work and other commitments may prevent them from responding right away, but should I wait about a week, or should I assume I’ve been turned down if there’s no reply after two or three days? If my request is just an unwanted bother, I’m starting to feel like I should withdraw it…
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I’m Tetsu, a male member. In my experience, I’ve received a response within 24 hours of requesting a date in almost every case. There were two exceptions, but in both cases, communication became unreliable after we met and things didn’t continue. It can also give you a glimpse of a woman’s side that you can’t tell from simply looking at her profile on the club’s site.
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I’m Meg, a female member. > Should I wait about a week? I’m amazed by how patient you are… Seriously…
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Maezawa from the executive office here—I’ll answer your question as well. Thank you for your question. First, you should receive an email along the lines of, “Thank you for your offer. We’ll check with the woman.” I’m not sure how long it takes these days, but in the past, offers made after 5 p.m. usually resulted in an email arriving sometime after noon the following day. If the offer was made before 5 p.m., I believe it generally arrived that same day. Have you received this email? If not, the offer may not have gone through for some reason, so please contact your branch office. After that, it depends on the woman’s response. Even if she takes a while to reply, if we haven’t heard back within about three days, we’ll let the man know that we haven’t received a response from her yet. (In practice, we often make that determination after about one day, but please allow around three days just to be safe.) If you’ve waited three days and still haven’t received a reply, it’s perfectly fine to follow up with us. There’s also a chance that our reply ended up in your spam folder. In that case, the club may be wondering what happened after sending the email to you. Universe Club arranges meetings manually through our staff, so there’s no problem at all with asking things like: “How are things progressing?” “Should I wait a little longer?” If you still don’t receive a reply, it may have been filtered as spam, so I think it would be fine to give us a call as well.
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I’m Papercraft, a male member. You can usually get a pretty good idea of how things will go after meeting someone based on the communication leading up to the arrangement. Ideally, she should get back to you sometime that day, or by the next day at the latest. Sometimes her work schedule won’t be released for a few more days, so if it’s only a short wait, that’s understandable. Even then, though, she should still be able to let you know which dates currently work for her. You can wait several days if you want, but girls like that tend to gradually fade out even if you continue seeing them. With Letter Date, if you make an offer from the afternoon into the evening—without having to adjust your schedule in advance, and as soon as you feel like it—you’ll usually hear back within a few hours and can quickly settle on a date through a smooth back-and-forth exchange, sometimes within about ten minutes. It eliminates the stress of waiting. If you contact her directly, you might get a reply within two or three minutes. With the club arranging everything, though, you may wait anywhere from several hours to several days. Sometimes it takes five or six days, and once her reply finally comes, you respond and then have to wait all over again. If things go badly, you might have already gone on two dates during that time… The difference is like analog versus digital. Actually, all that staff effort—and the need to chase someone up—for a reply that could come back in two or three minutes… I’d rather they put that energy into something where it could be put to better use…
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