Is canceling at the last minute a mental illness? I sometimes look forward to a date but suddenly don’t feel like going right before it. What should I do?
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Would seeing a psychiatrist help? Please tell me how you all get yourselves motivated.
I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
I kind of know what you mean.
In my case, I grumble, “I really don’t want to go. This is such a pain,” while making my way to the date spot anyway. Then I wait for the other person, muttering, “I want to go home. I want to go home already.” But the moment they show up, I switch gears and say, “I’ve been looking forward to our date today!” lol
I’m such a weirdo.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
Thank you for your question.
Come to think of it, it might be similar to cold feet before marriage: after saying yes, you start wondering whether it was really the right decision. I’ve heard that some people even end up unable to go through with the wedding, and the engagement is called off.
I’m not sure what causes it, but you may want to think it over carefully instead of agreeing too quickly.
It’s also possible that papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) simply isn’t right for you in the first place.
I’m not sure I’d call it an illness, though.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think it’s appropriate to blame everything on mental health.
Mac made a very astute point. Exactly—I think she’s simply lazy.
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