My papa seems to have joined this and other clubs with several close friends, and apparently they talk about the girls they’ve offered to meet when they get together.

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I’m Kazu, a male member. That’s an awfully malicious question disguised as innocence. Anyone who takes covert photos is scum. Please don’t ask as if such a shitty act were perfectly normal. I didn’t join with any friends, but through connections with other answerers, I’ve met people I can chat casually with. We don’t usually talk about people we’ve approached or are seeing in a way that would identify them—more like “a woman in her mid-twenties who works in Tokyo.” We’ll just talk about things like where I went with ○○ the other day or what we did. We don’t look at photos of the people we’re seeing, and we don’t ask to see them. Even if we did, we’re adults, so we wouldn’t comment on another person’s appearance. Sometimes the women I’m seeing ask what other kinds of people I meet. Even then, I keep it vague, like “a student in Tokyo who’s around twenty.” If I mention someone I see more often than the girl asking, she may ask why I see that person more frequently than I see her. Occasionally, during a first date with someone I’ve approached, she’ll ask what the woman I’ve been seeing looks like. I just tell her, “Even if I told you, it’s not like you could have plastic surgery and end up looking like her, so what would be the point?”