I don't like foreplay.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. That’s a good question（笑） > I get wet pretty quickly, so I want him to get inside me right away. Once he’s inside, it feels really good, so I urge him, “Hurry up and put it in!” Oh, really! People often say everyone’s different, but I guess there are people like that too.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. I think the best approach is not letting him touch you at all. My ex-wife, who is also the woman I’ve been involved with the longest, never lets me touch her there, as I mentioned in a previous post. She doesn’t even let me caress her. I prefer using my fingers, but I’ve never touched her that way—not even when we were dating. She’s the only woman like that. Like you, she gets wet very quickly, and while she’s caressing me, she’s often already completely ready. So even now, I never initiate the caressing. She’s the one who does it. She definitely gets wetter than other women. In your case, judging by how wet you get, I think the man is probably ready at any time too. In fact, that may be the best moment to proceed. If you were married or in a relationship, your situation could probably be understood between the two of you. But in a club setting, it seems quite difficult. Unless you caress him so intensely that it takes him by surprise, it may be very difficult for him to understand. That said, a man may be able to figure it out from how extremely wet you are. By letting him know how wet you are while caressing him, I think it’s entirely possible to avoid letting him touch you at all.

Maezawa from the President’s Office here. Thank you for your question. As you said, if you immediately say, “I want you to put it in,” he may think you just want to finish quickly and get your money. However, if a woman who becomes aroused from just a little touching says that, he might instead feel that she’s genuinely aroused and wants him to put it in. That said, I imagine it would be difficult to fake that part. So I think it would be best to explain beforehand that you can feel pleasure internally, but foreplay is painful and difficult for you.

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. You could also try making him think, “I want to finish already,” during a blowjob. The best defense is a strong offense.

I’m Kazu, a male member. There are women like that, too. Why not try telling him everything, including that you find it difficult when he initiates foreplay at the end?