I’m a male member.

I believe the three biggest risks for both men and women at dating clubs are: ・Compensation claims (if the other person is married) ・Pregnancy ・STIs However, when it comes to compensation claims, unless you’re extremely careless, it’s basically a matter that can be settled with money, so there’s not much need to worry about it. As for STIs, using condoms and getting tested regularly should make that manageable as well. But when it comes to the risk of pregnancy, isn’t it something you can’t simply reason away? Is relying on “condoms alone” actually the norm? Looking through anonymous posts, I regularly see women complaining things like, “He wouldn’t use a condom.” It gives me the impression that they’re concerned not only about STIs, but also thinking, “What would happen if I got pregnant?” Or am I mistaken? I don’t really care whether dating clubs are “not sex work,” but considering that, in practice, women may have sex with multiple men, I’m starting to feel that many of them don’t take precautions themselves, such as using the pill, and simply assume that condoms used by the men are enough. Relying on the morning-after pill seems like little more than wishful thinking. What about the side effects of low-dose birth control pills? People generally aren’t involved with dating clubs for that long, are they? Of course, as a man, if a pregnancy were to occur, it goes without saying that I would take appropriate responsibility if the woman wanted to give birth—or even if she didn’t. This is getting long, so in summary: My question is: Are women also taking appropriate precautions, such as using the pill, in addition to men using condoms (or getting tested for STIs, or doing both), which should go without saying? Or are most women simply lacking the imagination to understand the risks—being foolish enough to say, “Since the risk is high, give me a bigger allowance!”?