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Nov 11, 2026 23:07
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I’ve met six Platinum-type C members, and things progressed to an adult relationship (intimate) with five of them.
Is that a high rate?
Is it average?
What’s typical in general?
I’ve met two of them four or five times.
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🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
From Fuu’s perspective, that sounds pretty average.
Since the person asking isn’t extremely unhygienic or a creepy old guy, and their judgment in choosing women isn’t off, I’d say they’re someone who can probably keep enjoying papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) as they are, without any particular issues.
Based on Fuu’s experience (not exact data, lol), if you mainly make offers to women with Relationship Type C or Gold memberships, you’ll probably be turned down by only one or two out of ten. So it feels like you can get to an adult relationship (intimate) the same day about 80–90% of the time.
If you’re getting bored and want to feel some excitement, try making offers to women before their interviews at Patro. Your success rate will drop straight to around 50%, lol.
It really shows you the importance of how the club works—including its rating system—as well as the explanations and interviews.
Maybe out of five women, two would be monthly arrangements? How many regular partners someone keeps really depends on their finances and personality, so it’s hard to say what’s “normal.”
Fuu has been active at the club for eight years, so making offers to replace regular partners is basically the main focus of my activity here.
When someone drops out and a spot opens up, I might find a replacement after one or a few offers. Other times, even after making more than ten offers, I still can’t find anyone, and mentally I’m left with an empty spot.
The thing I try to remember is that this is papa-katsu, and I can only be with these women because Eichi-kun is backing me up at the stand—JoJo style. I try not to forget that.
Sometimes I’ll pick someone up in the real world and go out for drinks, just to make sure I don’t lose my sense of normalcy. It reminds me of how impossible it would be without Eichi-kun, lol.
I guess I just try not to become one of those papa-katsu uncles who gets the wrong idea about himself, lol.
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を目指しています。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
It sounds like the person asking applied to all of them and was turned down by one.
If they had met a woman and decided not to continue because things didn’t progress, I don’t think the situation would be described the way it is in the question.
It’s not unusual to get an OK from everyone, and I’d say fewer people actually turn someone down. You might get rejected if you offer only a small allowance, but if you want to achieve a “high probability,” you basically just need to offer what they ask for.
With that in mind, the odds aren’t particularly high.
As for women staying long-term, if the person asking is telling every woman they’d like to see her again, yet the women are still drifting away, then there’s clearly a lot of room for improvement on his side. The papa-katsu market is very much a buyer’s market for men, so if you neglect to keep in touch, the women will reach out to you.
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クラブ活動歴だけは30年以上と長いです。交際クラブの世界観は結構好きで楽しんでいます。60代後半になって大分以前とは活動内容が変わって来ていますが、まあ、楽しめる間は楽しもうと思っています。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Isn’t that pretty normal?
Unless you’re not on the same page about the allowance, you usually meet up at least once, right?
In my case, I’ve found myself wanting to continue with fewer and fewer people lately. About six months ago, I met someone who really clicked with me for the first time in a while, and since then, I haven’t made it to a second meeting with anyone I’ve met. I guess that’s fine, though.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’d say 5 out of 6 is on the high side.
That said, some people get 100%—all 6 out of 6—while others are around 50%, or 3 out of 6. I’ve even seen someone who was only around 10%, just 1 out of 6.
In the end, I think it comes down to things like the allowance, how kind the person is, and how they make the invitation.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think that’s pretty normal.
The fact that he’s met two out of the five women four or more times makes him seem like a man who isn’t overly selective.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
We can’t really judge without knowing the allowance amount.
Papa-katsu isn’t a competition, so as long as you’re enjoying yourself, that’s what matters. Isn’t “what’s typical” beside the point?
Update:
Since you used the word “probability,” I tried doing a little math.
Let x be the probability that a Platinum C-type woman agrees to an adult relationship (intimate), and y be the probability that the questioner meets six women and has an adult relationship with five of them.
If we assume x = 1/6, then:
y = 1⁵ × 5 × 6 / 6⁶ = 0.001
If x = 2/6:
2⁵ × 4 × 6 / 6⁶ = 0.02
Likewise:
x = 3/6 → y = 0.09
x = 4/6 → y = 0.26
x = 5/6 → y = 0.40
In short, y changes dramatically depending on the value of x. And x varies based on factors such as ① the allowance amount, ② how well-groomed you are, and ③ your attitude, among other things.
Of these, ① the allowance amount is easy to quantify—or rather, it’s already a number—so you could probably determine it by surveying the female members.
It would be interesting if someone on the management team calculated the figures and put them into a table.
Incidentally, when x = 5/6, the probability of having an adult relationship with all six women is 0.33, or 33%.
The probability of succeeding with four and striking out with two is 20%.
I hope this is helpful.
Sorry if I got the calculations wrong. I was good at math in high school, but that was 50 years ago now.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve never even considered the possibility of being turned down with a Type C arrangement, and I’ve never actually been rejected.
> Is this a high probability?
> Is it normal?
It’s not low, but I wouldn’t call it a high probability either. So, it’s “normal.”
The only situation where you could really call it a “high probability” with Type C is 100%.
With Type C, I can understand worrying about how difficult it is to turn down an adult relationship when a woman you’re not attracted to shows up.
I’ve never managed to decline an adult relationship with a Type C woman, so I tend to avoid Type C women.