For those of you who use an agency, do you ever go to your partner’s place or invite them over to yours?
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I personally feel more comfortable meeting somewhere out, but I was wondering what it’s actually like.
If you’ve gone to each other’s homes, I’d love to hear what was good about it—or what ended up being a hassle.
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂20s👑Universe female member
If you’re more comfortable meeting in public, then regardless of what other people do, I think you should stick to meeting outside.
The most important thing is to have an arrangement that doesn’t cause you stress.
In fact, Universe Club even tells men not to invite women to their homes on the first date, so I think they recognize that meeting at someone’s home can be stressful.
Also, having the first meal at the man’s home—or, of course, the woman’s home—is prohibited.
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I don’t want to go to his place, and I don’t want him coming to mine either. We have an arrangement where we stay away from each other’s neighborhoods.
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I go to their homes—and have them come to mine—quite often. My motto is to focus on a few people and treat them generously.
I don’t think either approach is wrong; it really depends on the person.
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What’s good about going back and forth to each other’s homes:
1. No one sees you entering or leaving a love hotel (or even a city hotel).
2. It’s fine even if the girl has a boyfriend and has GPS tracking on her phone.
3. You don’t have to worry about how clean the sheets at love hotels really are.
4. I have my own private room for intimate encounters, and for anyone seeing someone adult more than ten times a month, this is definitely more cost-effective.
5. Visiting a girl’s family home while her parents were away was exciting. Going to a girl’s apartment when she lives alone is also fun—it feels like I’ve gone back to being a student and am visiting my girlfriend’s place.
6. I rent one apartment and own a two-bedroom apartment, and I use both as private rooms for intimate encounters. When a girl temporarily needs somewhere to stay for various reasons, I can let her live there. It feels a bit like living together, which is nice.
What’s inconvenient about it:
1. I have to clean the private rooms myself and wash the towels, which is a lot of work.
2. Sometimes the girl’s actual room is completely different from what I imagined, and it ruins the fantasy.
3. Visiting a girl’s house and getting intimate while her parents were away was exciting, but I was nervous too.
4. I go to great lengths to explain that there are no hidden cameras or recording devices in the private rooms, but sometimes I get tired of explaining it. Proving that something doesn’t exist is practically impossible, so in the end all I can do is keep telling them, “You have to trust me.” It never ends.
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Unless you have a really strong level of trust, wouldn’t it be better not to invite him to your home?
Wouldn’t it scare you to think he might become a stalker after you break things off?
You use a pseudonym—the name registered with the club—to protect your privacy, so that would defeat the whole purpose.
And if your boyfriend showed up while your papa was at your place, it’d be total chaos lol
At first, I think keeping your real name, home address, and detailed workplace information secret is essential.
Fuu is married, so it’s not possible for me, but someday I’d like to have a private room for that… though, haha.
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I want to spend as much time working as possible, so they almost always come over to my place. I also have them leave as soon as possible.
There haven’t been any particular issues. Some of them know I’m seeing multiple women, while others don’t—but with all the women’s toiletries around my place, it would be strange if they didn’t notice.
I think there are probably two women who deliberately leave personal items like earrings or hair accessories behind. I can never tell which one did it, and that’s the only thing I find troublesome.
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I’m not sure whether the person asking is in their 20s or mid-30s.
Sometimes we use the other person’s place, and sometimes mine—though it’s a place I keep specifically for that purpose.
The advantages are that we don’t have to make reservations, and since there are things there, we can play around together or just relax. More than anything, I think it’s good that we’ve been able to build a certain level of trust.
The biggest hassle is probably the preparation: thorough cleaning and tidying up, and if she tends to squirt, getting ready for that as well.
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I’ve never had a date at the other person’s home or my own, but I’d be worried about privacy issues and losing the time limit that keeps things clearly defined. I feel that dates with someone special are valuable precisely because they have a time limit. I don’t think I’ll ever have dates at either their home or mine.
Sorry this probably wasn’t much help.
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