I’m a Type B female member. Since I’m Type B, the first meeting often ends without an adult relationship (intimacy), but I do feel the allowance should differ depending on whether or not an adult relationship is involved. Once the allowance has been agreed on at the first meeting, how should I bring up increasing it if we decide to have an adult relationship? Sometimes I’m taken to a hotel without discussing it at all... Is it presumptuous of me to even think this way? I’d really appreciate hearing everyone’s opinions when you have time.

Maezawa here. I believe we also discussed this during the interview, but if he invites you out, make sure to discuss the terms of the arrangement clearly before proceeding. If you move into a more private relationship without discussing anything, a man acting in bad faith might leave you without any allowance. Needless to say, it’s better to talk things through properly and proceed only once you’re satisfied. > After the allowance was decided during the first meeting, if things progress to an adult relationship (intimate), how should I bring up increasing the allowance? If the amount that was decided was for dinner only (no intimacy), then when things seem likely to progress to an adult relationship, you could ask: “Could you tell me what the terms would be for an adult relationship?” However, if the terms for the adult relationship were already agreed upon the first time, and you would like to receive a little more from the second meeting onward, that may be a bit difficult. Many men expect to continue with the terms agreed upon the first time. Even so, you could try telling him how you feel. Just keep in mind that if he feels your proposed terms are too demanding, the relationship may end. It’s best to bring it up prepared to accept that possibility.