I’m wondering whether club-based papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is a good fit for me.
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I’m tall and slim, and people say I’m a somewhat striking beauty. I often get invited out to dinner by ordinary men, yet I receive very few offers through clubs—and even when I do, the men usually aren’t the type to value building a relationship. (I’m not demanding or haughty at all.) I’m blaming myself, wondering if my appearance and overall vibe are the main reason things aren’t working out. I find myself jealous of girls who appeal more easily to papas—pure, cute, and kind—and I’m continuing this while feeling anxious. Should I give up on clubs and switch to a service used by men who prefer someone like me?
I’ll answer as well.
I take it you mean that although you’ve always been popular and often get asked out, on Universe you do receive offers, but they’re mostly from men only looking for something for that one day, so you can’t find the long-term relationship you’re looking for.
What relationship type have you selected?
Men looking for a long-term partner tend to choose women with the relationship type ピーーー.
Oops, we’re not allowed to steer people toward a particular relationship type. ><
But I think you can figure it out if you give it some thought.
Also, it’s possible that during the interview, you got carried away because you wanted to receive offers and said something like, “I’d be okay with this too.” If the staff highlighted that in their comments, men who saw it may have offered to meet you because they were looking for someone just for one night.
The staff comments aren’t public, so there’s nothing you can do about that. Instead, I think it would be a good idea to passionately explain in the comment section—where you can write your own message—that you’re genuinely looking for a long-term relationship.
That should help you receive offers from men who are also looking for something long-term.
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