A man I’ve met twice messaged me asking, “Would you be willing to meet again?” and invited me out for a third time. I asked when would work for him, and he replied, “Any time next week.” So I told him, “I’m available on this day,” but now he’s left me on read for two days.
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What do you think about someone inviting you out and then not replying for two days?
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I’ll answer too.
You may be wondering why they haven’t replied for two days even though you sent them your availability. But they may have various things going on, so why not send the same message one more time?
They may have meant to reply later and then forgotten, or they may have been working out their schedule and simply left it at that. There could be all kinds of reasons.
There’s no point stressing over something like this. Just assume that’s how it is and send the message again as usual. I think that’s perfectly fine.
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Try sending another LINE message.
If it still goes unread, it might be over.
Something may have happened to him. Maybe his wife or girlfriend found your LINE messages, so he couldn’t continue his papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
It could also be an accident or illness, or perhaps an unexpected business trip—or even that his company went under.
Who knows? lol
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Let’s just ignore that jerk and act like he never existed. Don’t leave your schedule open for him.
You should probably give him a heads-up: “Since I haven’t heard back from you, I’m going to make other plans.”
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