I’m a Universe Club member and have a question about letter dating.

Question

A man from overseas invited me to try letter dating, and we’ve been messaging on LINE. He reads my messages within seconds and replies quickly as well. The club told me that people generally prefer someone who responds quickly, so I’ve been replying promptly whenever he messages me. However, he hasn’t brought up meeting in person yet, and our conversations have remained casual small talk. There’s still a lot I don’t know about him, so I don’t mind chatting as it gives me a chance to learn more about him. But should I be the one to suggest a date? I’m worried he might be finding these exchanges troublesome. I’d love to hear from anyone who has experience with letter dating. Thank you in advance for your answers.

Answer 1

I wonder if that man even has a job. It does make you wonder when he replies that quickly, doesn’t it? You should take this as a chance to gather information and ask him all sorts of questions. Haha.

Answer 2

Since men are reaching out to people they like, I don’t think they dislike communicating with them. Personally, after about three to five exchanges through the app’s messaging system, I ask about their availability, and we usually arrange the first date pretty quickly. After that, we discuss the date details and anything else as needed. How easy it is to arrange a date depends a lot on whether the person is overseas but currently in Japan, lives abroad, or is Japanese but lives overseas. If she lives in Japan, I think it’s perfectly fine for her to let him know when she’s available.

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