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What does “mentally unstable” mean in the context of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?

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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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“Menhera” originally meant someone who frequently sought advice about mental health. It’s said that the term developed from there. Today, “menhera” doesn’t necessarily refer to someone who is genuinely mentally ill. It usually describes someone who’s lonely, very possessive, and frequently posts about their problems on social media—in other words, a “pay attention to me” type of person, like the kind of questioner who often shows up here. A girlfriend like that may also be called a “menhera girlfriend.” But I’m pretty sure the term “menhera” existed independently of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If it’s a male member, it’s the kind of guy who genuinely falls for his PJ and wants her to be seriously in love with him for hours on end, even without an allowance. If it’s a female member, it’s the kind who pours all her earnings into a host, becomes his top spender, but still won’t let him come over and bombards him with calls.
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マックさん
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名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m talking about the “emotionally troubled” persona.
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