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Jun 11, 2023 12:33
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I started using it to look for a relationship, but as soon as I send a photo of my face, they suddenly stop replying.
It’s really hurting my self-esteem because I wonder if it’s because I’m not cute enough.
But there’s one thing I don’t understand: people always compliment me on my looks.
Why do they stop replying? I’m sending photos where I’m properly made up, too.
For those of you who use dating apps, what kind of person makes you want to reply?
2 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> They suddenly stop replying as soon as I send a face photo.
If the photo you initially registered with is heavily edited, and the photos you send afterward are much less edited, the difference may be why they stop responding.
> People always compliment me on my looks.
They may just be being polite.
Universe requires you to register with an unedited photo, so if you sign up with Universe, the number of offers you receive should give you an objective idea of how attractive you are.
Besides, why ask for advice about dating apps here in the first place? I think signing up with Universe would answer your question.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Women usually get, like, 100 offers on dating apps—not papa-katsu, right?
I wonder if that’s really true. Maybe I’m setting my standards too high, but I doubt a single guy in his twenties who’s 180 cm tall, graduated from a top national university or Waseda/Keio, is a second son, and earns ¥8 million is still available.
Of course, if you write something like “tea 20, meal 30, adult 100” on a dating app, you probably won’t get any replies.
But if your messages don’t feel overly polished or professional—just naturally written, with a genuine reason for desperately wanting to meet someone—I’d want to meet you.