I’d like to ask for some advice. I’ve been making offers to women I find wonderful, but somehow things got a little out of hand, and I’m now dating around seven women. Most of them are looking for a Type B arrangement. I also see some women for dinner or drinks only. With work, hobbies, and so on, there are times when I don’t have the time—or am simply too tired—and I end up canceling dates. Of course, when I cancel the day before, I still transfer their allowance.

Question

Should I use this opportunity to narrow down the number of women I’m seeing? Or would it be better to end all of these relationships for now and start over from scratch? They’re all kind women, so I find it difficult to be the one to say I want to end things. Would it be better to simply maintain the current situation until the relationships naturally fade away? I realize the answer may simply be, “Think for yourself,” but for those of you answering, how do you handle it when the number of women you’re seeing starts to get out of hand?

Answer 1

If it were me, I’d let things fade out naturally—no question. I wouldn’t make any new offers, so I don’t increase the number of people I’m seeing.

Answer 2

Even women find it boring if they can’t feel that you’ve chosen and genuinely like them. First, you should probably leave the service. Only come back once you’ve developed a clear sense of your own preferences and learned to pick the right people. In baseball, if you let every pitch go by and strike out, there’s no point in stepping up to the plate.

Answer 3

Do they ask questions like this because they lack the ability to manage themselves? If you simply make plans, some women naturally won’t end up making arrangements to meet, which helps keep the numbers balanced.

Answer 4

Of course—let’s keep things going long-term with only good people. It’s great that you give them the equivalent of two meetings when you cancel.

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