Tips Oct 21, 2022 22:18

I recently received an offer from a man who gave me no allowance at all.

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I traveled from an hour away and made time for this, so getting nothing was honestly pretty upsetting. I was shocked that some men can be so inconsiderate about things like that. Up until then, we’d been having a pleasant conversation, but the moment I brought up transportation costs, he gave me an annoyed look. What was that about?
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 Not stated 👑 Universe female member
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
If you receive an offer through Universe and go on a date, you will always receive ¥5,000–¥10,000 as transportation expenses. If the man doesn’t pay, he has violated the rules, so please contact the staff. We will warn him, lower his rating, and tell him to pay—even at this point. If the woman no longer wishes to meet him, he will be asked to transfer the money to the club, which will then pass it on to her.
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This is an offer date through Universe, right? It’s stipulated in the rules, so please make sure you receive at least ¥5,000. To the staff: Some of the guys coming over from the app have no sense of common decency. Please don’t just accept them because they’re willing to pay—properly screen and investigate them. Before long, the number of women will drop, then the number of men will drop too… I find myself wondering every day whether that’s really what management is supposed to be about.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Please give the club your feedback so they can keep people like this out.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
As Seattle-san said, if it was a setting date, the club would probably collect it for you. However, with a man you met through a letter date, the relationship becomes free dating after the letter date. So even if he doesn’t give you your allowance at your first dinner, the club may not be able to collect it for you. In any case, he clearly misunderstood the arrangement, so let’s look at it positively: you were able to decide to cut things off early. Also, please report him to the club as soon as possible so they can lower his star rating. Personally, whether it’s a setting date or a letter date, I think failing to give you the transportation money when you first meet should be grounds for immediate expulsion, whatever the reason. That way, since forgetting to hand it over would cause problems, people would naturally start giving it in advance, I would think…
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s a firm rule that you’re guaranteed to receive ¥5,000. To prevent anyone else from falling victim, report him to the club on LINE right away. They’ll collect the ¥5,000 for you. Anyone stupid enough not to even hand over ¥5,000 should be forcibly banned.
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