Could you tell me, as many as you can think of, what things women in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) dislike their supporters doing?
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I won’t go into specifics in case my papa (a male supporter) happens to be reading this, but it seems I may have made her dislike me a little because of something that happened yesterday, and I was so worried about it that I could hardly sleep.
It didn’t seem like a big deal to me, but perhaps I was being naive. I’d really appreciate hearing what other people think.
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When I was younger—around 25 or 26—I was involved with a man 17 years older than me, but I often upset him with the way I spoke and my attitude.
I felt that since we were in a romantic relationship, we were equals regardless of our age difference. But he had started his own company around the age of 30 and had held his own against the heads of major corporations, so apparently he thought that kind of attitude from some young girl was unacceptable.
I apologized anyway, but I still don’t really agree with him, haha.
Marika
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It’s hard to answer when someone says, “Write down anything that comes to mind.”
I don’t want to date someone who’s just putting up with me for the allowance.
At the same time, I’m not fond of women who have a long list of things they won’t do. It makes me feel that we’re probably not compatible.
I don’t mind slow replies on LINE, and even if she’s late, it doesn’t bother me as long as she actually shows up.
What I dislike is agreeing on an allowance, only to have her try to renegotiate it afterward. I’ll let it slide once, but if it happens a second time, I’ll say goodbye.
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Maybe it’s because I haven’t met anyone who does anything unpleasant? I can’t really think of anything.
Even on LINE, they reply once they’ve seen my message, even if it takes a while—and if they’re quick, they reply almost immediately.
I approach things assuming people are fundamentally good.
If I had to name one thing, it would be girls who require a lot of back-and-forth to coordinate schedules, or who don’t reply within seconds.
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Passive in conversation and never brings up topics themselves.
Passive during sex and shows little reaction.
I can wait 24 hours for a LINE reply, but if there’s still no response after that, I start losing interest.
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I hate the idea of someone putting up with me just for the allowance.
If I realized she was only spending time with me because of the money, I’d probably lose interest immediately, thinking it was even less enjoyable than seeing a sex worker.
In that case, I’d rather pay a sex worker who doesn’t have to pretend or worry about my feelings—I’d have a much more satisfying release that way.
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