I’m a new male member.

This is only a rough guide to how much monthly support would make me happy. I don’t ask as directly as the person who posted the question. For reference: If a woman says, “I want ¥1 million a month,” I think that’s excessive, so I wouldn’t make an offer. “About ¥100,000 a month” That sounds reasonable—maybe two people at ¥50,000 per pay-per-meeting? Or meeting one papa twice a month? I’d make an offer. “More than ¥100,000 but less than ¥1 million a month” If I like her face and she has a good figure, I’d be 50/50 on whether to make a modest offer, hoping to become one of her secondary papas, or not make an offer at all. That said, women may also be misunderstanding things, like the person who posted the question, so this is only meant as a rough reference.

> Could you tell me just as a rough guideline? Well, as I’ve mentioned before, the figures being quoted there have nothing to do with the amount people actually want, so they’re not useful as a reference at all. For example, suppose there’s a woman who wants ¥1 million a month. Some women will simply answer “¥1 million.” Others may think that if they want to receive ¥1 million, they need to ask for ¥2 million, otherwise they won’t get it. Some may even think it’s better to answer “¥30,000” in order to receive ¥1 million. Everyone has their own way of thinking. And if someone suddenly asks, “How much would you like per month?” when they come in for an interview, they may simply be answering without really knowing what the right response is. So before worrying about whether the amount is high or low, keep in mind that the amount being quoted in the first place isn’t reliable. It’s better not to pay much attention to it. In fact, if you take those figures at face value, you’ll end up disappointed when you meet them. The videos are meant for seeing their facial expressions and mannerisms. Men who take the quoted amounts literally are going to have a hard time when it comes to dating women. Pay more attention to the women themselves. Focus on how you can enjoy your time together when you meet them. Honestly, men who are all about money are such a turnoff.

I think it’s ridiculous. This isn’t an auction for tuna, so there’s no such thing as “high” or “low.” Actually, since you’re asking other people whether it’s high or low, it’s not even an auction. Why not decide based on whether you yourself would want to date someone for that allowance? You’ve been alive for 50 years, so I think you should be able to make that judgment for yourself by now. P.S. The profile video seemed so staged that I couldn’t bear to watch it, so I didn’t. Apparently, things have gotten even more ridiculous than merely asking what color underwear someone wears. What a shame.

For pay-per-meeting rates in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’d say it’s probably roughly like this↓↓↓ ○Popular Gold girls Low: 3–4 Average: 5–6 Somewhat high: 7 High: 8+ ○Popular Platinum girls Low: 5–6 Average: 7–8 Somewhat high: 10+ High: 12+ ○Popular Black girls Low: up to 9 Average: 10–12 Somewhat high: 13–15 High: 16+ per meeting (premium Black girls) Most papas offering 5 per meeting are probably targeting popular Gold or Platinum girls. The reason top 1% guys like Top Gun from Kobe and I offer higher allowances is simply because we’re targeting popular Black or premium Black girls. If you want to keep a premium Black girl exclusively, you need at least 60 per month. I currently support one who gets 100. There was also a Nagoya girl among my monthly arrangements who offered to move in with me for 200 per month. ⚫ Boyfriend Papa Recently, there’s been a premium Black girl I met outside the usual scene who told me, “I want to be your girlfriend.” I obviously think she should see an eye doctor, but please take this as a tall tale that’s probably only about 10% true. “Boyfriend Papa” is an arrangement where you’re both her boyfriend and her papa. It’s a great deal: you can keep a premium Black girl—who would normally require at least 60 per month—for half that amount, such as 30 per meeting. Lately, I’ve started actively pursuing this type and have been sharpening my skills as a hunter. After I first succeed in getting a free encounter, I bring up the allowance. Keeping a premium Black girl without offering any allowance is just a fantasy, so I give her around 30 per month with an excuse like, “I want you to become even more beautiful, so use this.” You shouldn’t call it an allowance or rent assistance. Beauty expenses are the best label. Of course, you can see each other as often as you like. The women themselves are the ones asking to meet me in the first place. There’s a premium Black girl with unbelievably bad eyesight who tells me, “You’re so handsome. You’re totally my type♡” Every once in a while, anyway. I recently landed one Boyfriend Papa arrangement, and I sincerely hope she never discovers the modern miracle known as contact lenses...

Do you really need to ask other people to know whether it’s high or low? Someone earning ¥100 million a year and someone earning ¥10 million will naturally have very different perspectives. Even the same amount can feel different depending on whether it’s being asked for by your absolute dream woman or by someone you think, “She’s asking for that much?” Since it’s subjective, your own sense of what feels right is all that matters. Marika

I’ve never really thought about that. For example, my usual arrangement is one meeting a month, with an allowance of ¥50,000 per meeting. But even if a woman wanted ¥500,000 a month, that wouldn’t matter to me, since I’m fine with seeing multiple women—as long as the total reaches ¥500,000 across several partners. And just because I think a woman’s requested amount is low doesn’t mean I’d consider lowering her allowance. If I felt reluctant to pay that amount in the first place, I wouldn’t continue seeing her anyway…

I don’t think this is a carefully considered answer, so whether the amount is high or low, I wouldn’t rely on it too much. More importantly, I think it’s better to develop your eye for choosing someone who matches your preferences—someone you could really get absorbed in—and gain experience. If you keep relying on criteria and other people’s opinions, you’ll never become mutually infatuated. What matters is being drawn to each other’s charms. When you both become captivated by each other, your confidence that things will work out grows, creating a positive cycle. P.S. As an example of building up successful experiences (this is slightly off-topic, so bear with me). It’s a boring story, so you don’t have to read it… Conversation with my wife, part 1: While we were looking at the view from an observation deck, my wife said, “Move that big cloud right in front of us.” I replied, “Okay, got it.” After we walked around for a few dozen minutes, the cloud moved away and the sky turned blue. I’m a lucky guy when it comes to the weather… Part 2: When we were about to hit a busy time of day, my wife said, “If Papa’s driving, there won’t be any traffic, so we’ll make it on time, right?” I said, “Yeah, probably.” When I took over the wheel, the traffic cleared up as usual, and we arrived at our destination smoothly. Part 3: When we entered a restaurant, my wife looked at the menu and said, “Whatever Papa orders will taste better, so choose and order for us.” I said, “Okay.” This ended up being completely different from a woman’s eye for choosing someone… But building up deep trust on dates is important.