I really enjoy going down on women, but once I encountered a woman with a very strong odor. It completely killed the mood, and we didn’t go all the way that day.
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In a situation like this, should I tell her about the odor and mention that it could be a sign of an illness?
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I once ended up with a woman who was a super combo of the Manchurian Incident × Canton Incident.
I powered through going down on her and kissing her.
Everything else between us was such a great match that I kept going down on her without hesitation until she moved overseas.
You just don’t have enough grit.
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I once had a cute regular I really liked and wanted to keep seeing, so I chose my words carefully and told her, “I’ll cover the cost of a gynecological checkup with your next allowance,” to let her know there was an odor.
I made the offer but didn’t tell her about the initial “vaginal odor incident,” and we didn’t continue seeing each other. I’ve only had one experience where a strong odor completely killed the mood.
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> Should you tell her about the odor and mention that it could be a medical issue?
You’re not a doctor, so if you bring up the possibility of an illness and it turns out not to be one, how will you take responsibility?
In Japan, people are far too lenient about attacking someone emotionally. Overseas, compensation for causing emotional distress can be extremely high, can’t it?
I also don’t think it’s right to point out something that can’t be improved. If it could definitely be fixed, then I think it would be okay to say something—but do you actually know a way to improve it 100%?
If she’s someone you care about, please think about how to handle things without hurting her.
If not, then I think you simply shouldn’t continue seeing her.
The idea that “telling her would be for her own good” only really applies when you’re very close. Otherwise, please think carefully before saying anything.
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You’ve been alive for 50 years, so you know there’s no single thing you “should” do. Think about what you want to do yourself.
Personally, in situations like that, I focus on ending the meeting without intimacy, taking care not to hurt the other person, and without giving a reason.
Sometimes they offer to return the allowance, but I still ask them to keep it.
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You can’t really say that, can you?
If there’s an unusual odor but they’re otherwise a good person, I’ll stop using my mouth and stick to using my hands or regular penetration.
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