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Jul 20, 2022 01:46
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As for my details:
・I registered when I was a teenager and am now in my fifth year
・I’m not in a high class (compared with the class of the men who have sent me offers
・I regularly have my photos retaken
・I’ve received around 10 offers over the past five years
That’s my situation. Would being registered for such a long time leave a bad impression?
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🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
This is just my personal opinion, but if her profile includes glowing comments from the club staff, such as:
- She’s been registered for a long time and came in for new photos, but she’s not jaded at all.
- She’s honest and a genuinely lovely person.
- She arrived at least 15 minutes early for the photo session.
- She’s considerate enough to even help tidy up.
And if she has a four- or five-star rating, I wouldn’t have a bad impression of her at all.
The two women I dated for two years were both long-term members with profiles like the one described above.
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t recommend staying active with a dating club for too long.
If there’s a man among those who’ve made you an offer that you can compromise on, it might be a good idea to pursue a long-term relationship with him.
It’s fine to start with a lower allowance. The longer the relationship continues, the more it’s like receiving a regular monthly offer, and your income will become steadily more stable. You won’t have to worry about illness or being recognized, and you’ll feel more emotionally secure, so I recommend it.
The next time you receive an offer, I think you should meet him with that mindset. Someone who seems just barely acceptable appearance-wise is actually about right.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I reached out to a female member who had been registered for a long time, and it turned out to be a great match. We’re still on good terms and seeing each other.
綾瀬なな
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Other
You’re still young, so why not sign up with another service like Ao○○ as well?
Five years is a long time…
アーリー
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Other
You can’t filter by registration year when searching profiles, so you may be able to figure out how long someone has been registered by filtering based on other factors and then checking their profile in detail.
Personally, I wouldn’t avoid making an offer just because someone has been registered for a long time, but I think opinions may vary from person to person.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
She probably won’t make the best impression, but since she likely understands both sides of the club, including its advantages, there’s still a chance—albeit a small one—that she’ll receive an offer.
Fortunately, women who have been registered for five years are extremely rare, so there’s a good chance she’ll be able to accept an offer.
太郎
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Other
You can get a sense from the profile that she’s experienced. If she regularly has her photos retaken, that suggests she’s been actively involved for five years.
I don’t think the class matters. On the other hand, if she’s in a higher class and the staff comment says something like, “She’s become more polished and beautiful than before,” I get a strong sense that she’s already been thoroughly groomed.
You can’t tell how many offers she gets from her profile, so when you meet her, you might end up thinking, “Oh, she gets fewer offers than I expected.”
In any case, I think her profile is sending a fairly clear message. I’d personally steer clear, but there are people who like that sort of thing, so I don’t see it as a problem.
Taro