My papa said he feels bad for my boyfriend because I have a partner. Should I say, “I feel really sorry to your wife for meeting you like this…”?
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My papa, who knows I have a boyfriend, brings it up every time, and it’s annoying. I’m thinking, “What are you even talking about when you’re married too?” If I say the same thing back to him, do you think he’ll understand how I feel?
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“I feel bad for your boyfriend if you’re seeing someone else,” he said.
Well, if that’s how you feel, then maybe you should give me a little more allowance (heart).
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Haha, that’s pretty funny.
That’s actually a good idea, haha. I’m married too, but, you know, there are all kinds of reasons…
That’s why I do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
You could simply say the same thing back, or you could just accept it without saying anything.
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He may be an annoying papa, but your response is annoying too, so I think you should stop.
I’m sure there are papas who aren’t annoying, so maybe you should look for someone else.
Was the person you mentioned in your previous question—the one who’s a high-powered career woman and can’t do papa-katsu—a friend of yours?
Or is this just an opportunity to praise the questioner for being amazing enough to do papa-katsu and have a boyfriend even while pursuing a demanding career?
Keep up the good work.
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That papa is an idiot—he’s married, yet he’s competing with your boyfriend like he’s trying to prove himself as a man. His thinking is completely warped, so there’s no helping him.
You should never bring out your ego as a man in papa-katsu. That’s the absolute basics.
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Is this one of those situations where you want to snap, “If you feel guilty about your boyfriend in the first place, then stop seeing him—or just send her the money without anything physical”?
If she brings up her boyfriend again, you could satisfy his NTR fantasy by saying:
“Honestly, ○○, I feel safer with you than I do with my boyfriend. You’re more of a man, and I like you more!”
Or, if he’s a papa who’s genuinely fallen for you, try saying it with teary eyes:
“You’d say something like that…? Actually, I sometimes feel guilty about your wife too. But to be honest, I love you so much that I can’t even spare the thought for your wife—I don’t want us to be apart…”
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