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Jun 21, 2022 02:48
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There’s a chance my biological father may be registered with Universe.
I know it may sound odd to say this myself, but I grew up quite wealthy. I’m grateful to my parents.
I want to explain what led me to think my father might be registered.
I’m so shaken that my writing may be incoherent, so please bear with me…
I joined Universe after being introduced by a close friend.
We sometimes talk about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) when we chat.
Recently, she showed me a photo and said she had bought matching watches with her papa (a male supporter) from the club.
The photo showed her hand and her papa’s hand, but his hand looked incredibly familiar.
I can’t go into detail because I don’t want to risk identifying him or my friend (though I know it’s probably unlikely), but her papa had a scar on his hand.
Also, the watch brand was the same one he had always preferred and bought in the past.
I do papa-katsu too, and I’ve been living away from home for several years now, so it’s not as though I feel disappointed.
But if that really is my father and he’s registered with this club, I don’t know what class he’s in, but there’s still a chance I could appear on the site, right?
Lately, I get nervous every time I see “You’re lovely.”
Maybe I’m just being overly self-conscious.
I understand that even if he really is my father, and even if this involved a parent and child, they obviously can’t disclose personal information.
If I really don’t want to be found, would I have no choice but to quit…?
8 answers
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s been several years since you left home, and you’re both using fake names. Wouldn’t you just pretend not to know each other?
Even if your father recognizes you, do you really think he’d go out of his way to say anything to you?
I feel like you’d both just pretend to be strangers.
Even if he said something, you could just play dumb and say, “I don’t know him.”
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I think you should give the staff your father’s real name and ask them to hide your profile specifically if he’s registered.
They can’t tell you whether your father was registered, but if he is, your profile will be hidden, so you won’t have to worry about him seeing it.
Also, it doesn’t have to be a parent. You can give them the name of someone you know during the interview, and they can hide your profile from that person when it’s registered.
However, they won’t be able to tell you whether that person was registered.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I have a 20-year-old daughter, and if I really found out she was doing it, I might actually feel a little happy and think, “You’re doing your best.” My daughter and I would be comrades.
No need to get so upset.
アーリー
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Other
As others have mentioned, you should be able to hide it, so I think you should do that.
However, it won’t help if one of the women your father is seeing happens to show her the site.
There are some men on the papa side who are foolish enough to show the site to the women they’re seeing, so it’s not impossible that there are women like that too.
綾瀬なな
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Other
Why don’t you go home?
If you can’t survive unless you go out and do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), then you’ve already got a lot of things wrong…
Go home and have your parents buy you whatever you need.
You don’t have to sell your body—if you know how to sweet-talk them, they’ll buy things for you.
👨 Male
Universe member
That does happen, so once you find someone you’re dating, you could put your account on hold and continue discreetly.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
What a mysterious question…
> I come from a very wealthy family, and I’m grateful to my parents.
Then just quit and have your own father buy you whatever you want. You can get an allowance from him, too.
太郎
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Other
Apparently, you can ask the club to hide your profile from a specific male member, so you should contact them. You know your papa’s name, right? Just tell them, “If there’s a male member under this name, please hide me from him.” The club probably won’t tell you whether or not they found someone—that’s personal data protection. But they’ll take care of it behind the scenes. I think. Who knows.
But what exactly are you afraid of? That he’ll find out and your father will get angry? He’s in the same boat, isn’t he? He really has no right to lecture you. Besides, I imagine most fathers would simply keep quiet. If my own daughter were in the Standard Class or told me she was getting zero offers, I’d probably complain at length that the club’s management was at fault. In that case, I might be pretty persistent, though(笑)
By the way, I used to think a mujina was something like an earthworm, but I looked it up and apparently it’s more like a raccoon dog. I learned something today. Thanks for giving me the opportunity.
Taro