Aren’t men who insist on going without a condom afraid of STIs?
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Among the men I’ve met here, quite a few try to go in without a condom, saying things like, “Let’s make it easier first,” or “I lose my erection when I put one on, so just for the beginning…” even when I tell them to use one. (They do use one eventually.) Aren’t these men afraid of STIs?
I do get regular STI tests and take birth control pills, but things like candidiasis can happen from fatigue even if you haven’t had sex with anyone else. I also treat each papa (male supporter) as though he’s the only one I’m seeing, but of course they have other partners too.
Does this mean they’re simply taking women at their word when they say they aren’t seeing anyone else?
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> Do you mean you’re taking her at her word when she says there aren’t any other women?
I do believe her, though (lol). You can tell when you’re dating someone.
Both men and women pay close attention to the person they’re seeing, so I think you can tell when something’s up.
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You seem to think it’s not that scary because you’re only seeing one person, and because men are generally believed to suffer less mental and physical damage than women.
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It goes both ways, I guess…
I usually have around three monthly partners who always want to have unprotected sex with ejaculation inside. Even though I want to use condoms…
I’m scared of STIs and pregnancy too, so even when they say, “It’s okay—I’m on the pill ♡,” I’m secretly freaking out…
When I try to put on a condom before we start, they quickly take it off and say, “Put it in bare ♡”
Even when I break things off with someone who insists on unprotected sex, somehow another one always takes her place. It’s like new partners gradually turn into girls who want it bare. It makes me suspicious that they might be trying to get pregnant.
Tomorrow is another unprotected-sex day, so I’m dreading it…
She’s someone I’m close to, so it’s hard to end things—and I don’t really want to, either…
The worst part is that, unfortunately, it feels good for me too when we don’t use a condom, so I can’t bring myself to refuse… I feel like they’re taking advantage of that.
I get tested for STIs twice a month, but with more than ten monthly partners, that doesn’t really do much to reduce the risk, does it?
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