It looks like women can now see that you’ve added them to your favorites. Have any of your favorite women sent you a “You seem wonderful” message?

If she added you to her favorites and sent you a “You seem wonderful,” I’d suggest making her an offer sooner rather than later. If you hesitate because you’re already seeing another woman, you may end up losing out on a great catch. Is Letter Date♡ still available? At the very least, reach out and get your foot in the door.

Then make her an offer right away. What are you doing here? Is your goal just to brag about how popular you are? When a woman reaches out, shouldn’t you respond sincerely? I’m not talking about feminism—I simply think you’re missing a chance to build a good relationship. Try putting yourself in her shoes. If you made the first move and got a response after one day, one week, or one month, would you feel the same? Of course not. I think the sense of security that “as long as I pay the allowance, I can probably get somewhere” rots a man from the inside. That’s the kind of security you get with sex work—but this is different. I sincerely hope you’ll give this some thought, so that on top of your already well-matured old-man smell, you don’t start giving off the stench of decay as well. Taro