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Jun 12, 2022 09:38
Thank you as always for your help here.
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I’d like to ask for advice about one of my papas (male supporters).
Because he wants a relationship that feels like a romantic one, I make sure not to give off any transactional vibes at all, and we talk on the phone and message each other every day.
I’m also very attracted to him, so being in a relationship that feels like dating isn’t difficult—in fact, it’s quite comfortable for me.
That said, I’m not looking for a relationship without an allowance, and he certainly isn’t expecting anything without paying one, either.
However, since the time we spend together feels just like time spent as a couple, there have been times when he forgot to give me my allowance—about twice so far.
But I feel awkward asking for it as we’re saying goodbye, because I worry it would ruin the mood.
When I message him on LINE, he says, “I forgot to give you your allowance! I’ll definitely give it to you next time,” but...
I also feel awkward having him give me everything together next time, so I’d really appreciate it if he could remember to give it to me each time.
He’s not the kind of person who’s trying to get away without paying an allowance at all,
which makes it even harder for me to bring it up.
Have any of you ever had a papa forget to give you your allowance?
And if a man forgets, what are some ways I could remind him without ruining the mood?
I’d really appreciate your advice.