I’m a female member of Universe.
Thankfully, I receive more than 10 offers a month, but because of work, there are times when I really need to change the time. If I make the change a few days in advance rather than canceling the day before or the day of, would it have much impact on my future ratings? Also, I’ve met with more than 30 people, but I’ve never canceled the day before or on the day itself.
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These days, the health center can suddenly contact you to say you’ve been identified as a close contact of someone with COVID, so I think within three days is still acceptable.
I think it’s best to let them know as soon as possible and apologize when you see them next time. ◝(⑅•ᴗ•⑅)◜..°♡
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I don’t remember much of what the staff explained, so I think you wanted to confirm it here.
Once a date has been confirmed, cancellations are not allowed. It will affect your rating.
So after you say that you’re available on a certain day and the date is confirmed, you generally can’t cancel or change the schedule.
Therefore, if your work schedule might change, it’s probably better to say in advance that you won’t be able to confirm until the last minute. However, in that case, the man will likely look for someone else, so it could end up putting you at a disadvantage.
The exception might be flight attendants. Men seem to understand their work when making an offer, so they often respond with things like, “You have sudden flights sometimes, right? It’s okay, it can’t be helped.” In those cases, their rating may not go down.
That said, this was before COVID, so I’m not sure whether they still have that many sudden schedule changes.
> There are times when I absolutely need to change the time because of work.
If it’s only a time change—for example, moving a 6:00 appointment to 7:00 or 8:00—and the man agrees willingly, I feel like your rating probably wouldn’t be affected.
But if the man gets angry, the staff have to apologize to him and deal with extra work, which is a hassle for them. In that case, I think your rating would likely go down.
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Please don’t reschedule, even if it’s still a few days in advance.
Why? Because I’ve already made a restaurant reservation. Far too many people think, “If I cancel a few days ahead, I’m not really causing any trouble.” This is just my perspective as a business owner, though.
Honestly, I sometimes think, “People like that—regardless of gender—should catch COVID! Though preferably only a mild case.” That’s just what I think, of course.
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If you’re only worried about your rating, rescheduling on 1/30 probably won’t leave that bad an impression. But for the man you’re meeting, it’s 1/1, so it would be rude to him—and if he’s a good one, it’d be a shame to ruin your first impression.
That said, if it’s because of work, it can’t be helped, so I think you should let him know as soon as possible.
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If you adjust the date a few days in advance, it probably won’t affect your rating much. However, if you keep changing the date with the same man repeatedly, it might start to have an impact.
Women who receive lots of offers can be selective about the men they meet, so their dates must be enjoyable...
And since the men are meeting attractive women, I’m sure those dates are enjoyable for them too.
It sounds like the kind of high-level matching you’d expect from a dating club.
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Unlike before, the number of stars is now determined by the man’s rating, so even if you change the time a few days in advance, whether it affects your rating depends entirely on the man.
Also, I don’t think changing it by an hour or two would be a problem, but if you change lunch to dinner, for example, you may need to redo the reservation depending on the restaurant.
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Hope you find a good papa soon.
You’re probably already at ★5, so you might start getting more offers focused on a guaranteed one-time encounter rather than an ongoing arrangement or dating. Maybe it would be better if your rating dropped a little?
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If everything has gone smoothly over several meetings and they ask to change the terms a few days in advance, I think it’s fair to just accept that these things happen.
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