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It would’ve been nice if you’d continued the choices all the way to 19 instead of stopping at 3, then added the punchline at the end. By the way, 19 is pronounced “iku,” not “ikkyu.” “Ikkyu” would be a clever little pun. Though that works too, I suppose. Actually, I’d love to time-travel back to 1919. It must have been a once-in-a-lifetime year for this kind of naughty wordplay—what on earth did people back then make of it? I’d definitely love to visit through time. Together with Toru Muranishi. Conch shell in hand. Taro

Exactly. I don’t place any importance at all on making a woman come. After all, it depends on her condition and mood that day. What I value most is sex that matches her mood and condition. For example, what would you do if she were in this kind of mental state: “Honestly, sex sounds like a hassle today. But it also feels a little off not to be desired at all”? Besides, I don’t think making a woman come is something that can be solved 100% through the man’s technique alone. Making her come—placing that above everything else feels like a departure from the traditional path of good sex. The proper approach is communication; the unorthodox approach is entertainment, I suppose. That said, when it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I feel like the unorthodox approach is fine. It may actually be easier for women to understand that way. There are advantages to going against the grain. In other words, acting is completely fine—sex as entertainment. To begin with, according to neuroscience, the male brain is “result-oriented,” while the female brain is “process-oriented.” Men focus on the result of making her come, but women don’t necessarily care about that as much. If I were a papa-katsu girl and found myself facing a man who wanted to make me come—or who was fixated on making me come—I’d 100% pretend to come. Because I’d want to make the person in front of me happy. There’s no ill intent in it. At its root, it comes from affection and kindness. Could you tell? I couldn’t. So even if it’s an act, I can only feel grateful when a woman comes. When she does, I say, “Thank you.” Much appreciated, much appreciated.

The moment you even entertain the possibility that you might not be able to tell when a woman is pretending, you have no business discussing how women climax. As for me, when I use my fingers, the internal movements are the same whenever a woman is about to climax, so I’m confident that women who let me use my fingers are never faking it. Incidentally, the way women climax varies from person to person and can’t be neatly divided into set patterns.

Not having the confidence to ask a question after writing all that… That’s pretty pathetic… What are you even talking about? Women are attracted to a man’s confidence, decisiveness, and guts when he really takes charge. As for the ways she comes, I suppose they fall into those three patterns, but I’m not sure what you mean by “like something you’d see in porn.” No matter how loudly a woman moans, I don’t think she’ll act like she does in porn. If she suddenly started making porn-style sounds, grinding her body, and reacting immediately, I’d be completely put off. I’m sure that’s not what happened in your case, though… To revise your wording: 1. “Like something you’d see in porn”? That intense? If it feels like porn or a brothel, it’s a massive turn-off… 2. Isn’t there a contradiction between “obvious” and “not clearly apparent to an observer”? So basically, you’re not confident? You can tell from a woman’s sweating—not how wet she gets—and her blissful expression. You can see the satisfaction, sense of accomplishment, fulfillment, and confidence radiating from her, can’t you? Besides, if you meet a woman with whom you have perfect chemistry and who has the best possible climax, everyone else will start to feel boring. You won’t be able to keep seeing that many different people. > To Flag Maker > Can you really see through that? Speaking of acting, when your papa (a male supporter) has no sense of taste, it’s pretty painful because no matter what he eats, all he can ever say is that it tastes good. Girls usually take photos of the dishes when they arrive, so while they’re doing that, the man should take a bite or two. His expression and comments are crucial. She’s judging right then and there whether he’s someone she can trust.

I can’t quite get there with this question, but it’s like repeating a cycle where 1 comes, then 2, followed by another big 1 (๑>◡<๑)