She’s one of the women I’ve been seeing long-term, and we have a fairly close relationship, but she’s never complimented me even once. She’s always the one wanting to meet, so I don’t think she sees me as someone unimportant.
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In my experience, other women will at least say something like “You’re kind,” so I find it strange. Why do you think she never compliments me?
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Women from a club will normally compliment you a lot—quite a lot, actually.
So, if you look at it positively, you could take her saying, “On the contrary, that’s strange,” as a sign that she’s letting her true self or honest feelings show. Though that may be stretching it a little…
If you have a clear reason for staying connected with her, then I suppose that could be the case.
But what’s so interesting about joining a club in your 30s when it’s neither romance nor a genuine encounter? I think you’d be better off enjoying the process of meeting someone. Time is precious when you’re young. I think you should enjoy your youth more.
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Either she’s very young, doesn’t understand that complimenting you is part of the deal, or—pardon me—just can’t find anything to compliment you on.
If you act superior just because you’re in your 30s, you’ll probably keep running into this kind of problem. It should be mutually beneficial. She isn’t saying she wants to see you—she’s saying, “Give me my money already.”
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Since this is that kind of relationship, even if there’s nothing in particular to compliment, he’ll probably still want to see you as long as he receives his allowance and you’re reasonably clean and gentlemanly.
Besides, since you’re in your 30s, you’re relatively young.
If you want him to compliment you, I’d suggest trying what Dai-san mentioned.
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Maybe she doesn’t feel that compliments are necessary, or perhaps she simply isn’t good at giving them.
Do you compliment the woman you’re seeing? If you compliment her, she may naturally reciprocate and compliment you as well.
You could also casually let her know during the conversation that it makes you happy when a woman compliments you.
Personally, I don’t particularly want to be complimented by women, so to be honest, I don’t really care.
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