Tips May 1, 2022 11:26

I’m a woman in my mid-30s living outside a major city, and I joined a year ago.

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I’ve received seven offers over the past year. Is that considered low?
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s not the number of offers, but the kind of men making them that matters, isn’t it? Or am I wrong?
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
What would the questioner actually do if the answer were “significantly fewer”? And conversely, what would they do if the answer were “significantly more”? What about if the answer were “about average”? I don’t think this question itself has any real meaning. Whether the number is high or low, the past figures won’t change. They haven’t even said what they want to do going forward, so in the end, I feel like knowing the answer wouldn’t really let them do anything. If you’re trying to promote Universe, you can make the numbers say whatever you want. Some people occasionally say, “Numbers don’t lie,” but whenever I hear that, I think, “Here we go—the con artist has arrived.” Numbers are actually the easiest thing to present in whatever way suits you. And because they appear to have some basis, they’re an ideal tool for deceiving people. If you knew all that and deliberately asked this question, then you’re quite the strategist…
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だて◎ゆめ
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Seven offers is a lot, I think. But what matters more than the number of offers is whether you can build ongoing relationships. If you meet seven people twice a month, that means dating for 14 days out of the month. That sounds pretty busy. If you have stable, ongoing arrangements, I think one or two offers are more than enough. It’s basically the same as receiving regular offers every month. Even if they aren’t much to look at at first, after seeing them for about two years, they gradually start to look handsome in your eyes. Good luck!
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綾瀬なな
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I don’t know anything about you, so it’s hard to say. Some people stay registered for one or two years without receiving a single offer, while others get offers from several people every month. So all I can really say is that it varies. Are you perhaps wondering whether to continue if you’re not getting many offers?
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あや
あや ?
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I think it’s about average.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It’s a lot compared with the average, but not much compared with people who see a lot of papa-katsu partners. Considering your age, though, it’s probably on the higher side. If your goal is to build a long-term, positive relationship, I’d say it’s just about right—not too many, while still giving you some options.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Compared with all female members, that’s actually on the higher side. For women who receive offers, it’s pretty average. I think it’s one of those things where there’s no end to how high you can look—or how low.
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茉莉花
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It’s neither a lot nor a little. Marika
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