It’s great that you feel comfortable together. Enjoy and cherish what you have now.
Even in a regular relationship, the time eventually comes to say goodbye. papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is the same way.
With my monthly arrangements, it’s usually the women who bring up ending things.
Fuu calls himself a “good-luck charm” for women. Two of my regular partners got married and moved on from Fuu—though I still see one of them occasionally.
Women are younger, after all, so they tend to experience more major life events.
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If you care about each other, you can still remain friends even after 10 years.
It might be better than being a married couple who does nothing but argue. Even among married couples, one in three ends up divorcing.
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Since you said “someday,” I assume there will naturally be an end to our relationship as lovers.
However, in our case, I don’t think our connection will end even after the adult relationship (intimate) does. It’s hard to put into words, but maybe because I don’t have a daughter or granddaughter, it feels almost like the relationship between a grandfather and granddaughter（笑).
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I’m not entirely sure how to define the terms, but papa-katsu feels somewhat more casual than being a mistress. Are they basically the same thing?
I’m not planning to just drop anyone or end things casually, but I’ve been wondering whether it would be considered being a mistress if the relationship deepened further.
Once it reached that level, I don’t think I’d picture seeing multiple people, so I’d probably focus on just one person—though I’m not seeing only one to begin with.
I had assumed papa-katsu was a newer term someone came up with to give the idea of being a mistress a lighter feel.
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Isn’t the idea that a mistress will eventually be dumped just your own assumption?
If you don’t want to be left, start by treating the man you’re seeing well.
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How long have you been seeing him?
Even if you do break up, if your papa is a good person, I think he’ll feel a sense of responsibility and treat you fairly. It doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll simply be “discarded.”
If being a mistress always ended miserably, no one would become one, and the culture of being a mistress would have died out long ago. I think women continue to become mistresses because there are some benefits to it.
For now, if you’re worried, you should be fine as long as you keep saving money. I love my papa, too, but I know I have no idea what might happen in the future, so I continue seeing him without letting my guard down. Or rather, that may be all I can do.
But in the end, I’m enjoying every day, so I sometimes think that if we’re going to break up someday anyway, we might as well enjoy the time we have together.
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You already know the answer, don’t you? Please don’t force your soliloquy into the form of a question. If I could throw it away, I’d discard this question-like post.
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People are basically divided into two types: those who get bored and those who don’t—those whose feelings deepen over time.
That won’t change, so it depends on which type of papa he is.
—Paper Airplane
Also, if you’re his mistress, it could last a lifetime; it won’t necessarily end, and you won’t be cast aside.
But if it’s a contract, it could end at any time.
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