Tips Mar 29, 2022 13:05

I have a papa who usually pays 50,000 yen per pay-per-meeting adult relationship, but he gave me no allowance when we only had dinner because I was on my period. I told him beforehand that I was on my period, but he was the one who said dinner only was fine. Is he a bad papa?

👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you feel he’s a bad papa, then he’s probably a bad papa.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
“I’d be happy to have dinner, but would I receive an allowance?” Since it was your first time, you probably should have asked and confirmed beforehand. Don’t forget to confirm next time.
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りん
りん ?
Other
It’s hard to ask, “I can’t do an adult relationship, but what about the allowance?” isn’t it? Still, if it’s going to keep bothering you, you should probably ask. I’ve never been in that situation, but if I enjoyed spending time with someone enough to want to see them even without an allowance, I’d happily meet them just for dinner without expecting one. I’d simply feel grateful that they treated me. If I were treated to dinner and given an allowance on top of that, I’d feel like I was raising my own expectations. Of course, I’d be happy if that happened, though!
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
There’s no point meeting someone you don’t feel comfortable with. Whether you get an allowance or not. Honestly, both of you are a bad match.
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茉莉花
茉莉花 ?
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You’re also at fault for going to dinner without negotiating first, PJ. But I’d probably go without negotiating too. If you don’t want dinner without an allowance, then just don’t go next time. Marika
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
He’s a bad papa (a male supporter). He should pay at least 10,000 yen.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
You’re an adult, so please make your own decision.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Recently, when my monthly arrangement partner happens to be on her period on the day we’ve scheduled, she’ll pay the allowance for the adult relationship without even having dinner (I generally get paid upfront), and I’ll quickly head to a men’s esthetics salon. It’s not every time, though.
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