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Mar 13, 2022 10:50
5 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
As I’ve said before, this is something you should discuss and decide with the woman.
I don’t understand why men feel they can unilaterally decide what amount is “reasonable.”
Even if you think it’s reasonable, the arrangement won’t work if she doesn’t agree. Why is that so hard to understand?
Whether or not it includes an adult relationship (intimate) is irrelevant.
Talk it over with her and decide together. That’s the basic rule.
If you’re going to ignore her feelings, you need to address that first. Otherwise, I don’t think your dates will go well.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
For dinner, I usually spend about two hours together and offer 1.
That said, these dinner dates are ultimately meant to lead to an adult relationship (intimate).
In the past, I made an offer out of curiosity to a woman with a rare profession—an A-type woman—thinking it would be dinner only.
The conversation was interesting, but I found myself thinking that if it’s just dinner, someone from my workplace would be enough.
If we were going to keep things strictly non-intimate, even for something like an overnight trip, I’d still only offer 1 as the allowance.
Other
It really depends on the relationship, so I don’t think there’s one “appropriate” amount.
Generally, I’d say around the club’s standard for a first meeting.
At first, I would spend two hours having dinner and give 1, but with the girl I’m closest to—and who receives the most from me—if I don’t have much time, I’ll give 10 for about two hours, even if it’s just an adult relationship (intimate). I don’t like doing only that, though; I prefer to have dinner or go on a regular date beforehand. Since she’s important to me, it feels reasonable from my perspective.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If they’re someone you want to spend time with, I think any amount of time is fine.
The allowance varies from person to person, and even if the time is short—or lasts half a day or longer—I think it’s fine for the allowance to stay the same.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It varies from person to person, but with Universe setting dates, it’s usually a two-hour meal and ¥5,000–¥10,000 for transportation.