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Feb 25, 2022 00:25
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
It’s not something you can make happen simply by deciding that’s how you want things to go.
Rather, as you spend time together, you gradually develop a relationship where you both think, “We have fun even without having sex,” and it naturally becomes a no-sex arrangement.
So, as a basic prerequisite, the man would need not to have an exceptionally strong sex drive in the first place.
Beyond that, I suppose it comes down to how close you can become and whether you can build a relationship where he enjoys seeing you even if all you do is spend time together…
“The road ahead is a perilous one indeed.”
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
No matter what we try, she’s so tight down there that it hurts and it won’t go in. She’s 21.
It’s been two years since she moved far away, and now we mostly meet for dinner, with her occasionally making the long trip to my place, or just traveling together.
One thing about her is that she’s incredibly fun to talk to.
綾瀬なな
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Other
I’m already exhausted, so please stop doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Sometimes, after seeing each other for a long time, a relationship naturally develops into a dinner-only arrangement.
But if the other person is looking for an adult relationship (intimate), I don’t think you’ll generally succeed in trying to turn it into a dinner-only relationship.
Try looking at it the other way around.
It’s like a papa (a male supporter) asking, “What can I do to turn this into a relationship without an allowance?”
あや
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Other
If the papa is extremely kind and very submissive, there’s a chance the relationship could work that way. Someone I used to see was like that.
He was a private-practice doctor, and our days off didn’t line up, so the time we could spend together was limited… If he had already retired and had more free time, things might have been different.
That said, some papas insist on going to a hotel whenever they have limited time together—in fact, that’s probably most of them—so there’s no definitive answer to how you can guarantee you won’t have sex. Even looking back now, I’m amazed that the relationship was able to continue without sex. I did make sure he had a good time when we were together, though. Besides meals, we went on all kinds of dates and trips.
As a last resort, you could pretend to have a gynecological condition. That might turn him into a dinner-only papa, but there’s a very high chance your allowance would be reduced.