I can’t get in touch with the girl I’m supposed to meet tomorrow. Does this mean she’s already cut me off?
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Four days ago, I sent her the restaurant’s location via LINE. She usually replies the same day at the latest, saying something like “Got it” or “I’m looking forward to seeing you,” but she still hasn’t even read the message.
We’ve met more than ten times, and she’s not the kind of person who would suddenly cancel without saying anything.
Should I just cancel tomorrow’s plans for now and wait to hear from her?
That does sound a little worrying. You can’t help wondering whether she’s been hospitalized in an emergency because of COVID, right?
When was the last time she contacted you?
If several days have passed since her last message and it’s still unread, there’s a chance she may be saying goodbye.
Did you make the restaurant reservation after contacting her and confirming? I sometimes see questions on Q&A sites from women saying they’re troubled when their papa makes plans without asking them first. I wonder what happened here.
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If you’ve already reserved a restaurant, I think it’s best to cancel it while still being prepared to go to the meeting place in case they contact you at the last minute.
If you do end up meeting, let them know that you canceled the restaurant and try going somewhere nearby that seems suitable.
It’s possible they simply became unreachable by chance, so even if you can’t meet tomorrow, they may still contact you later.
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Try contacting him one more time tomorrow morning. If he still hasn’t read it, you should cancel the restaurant reservation. He may get in touch at the last minute, so don’t panic—just wait patiently.
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If you’ve met her more than ten times, I don’t think she’d cut you off without saying anything.
There would probably be a cancellation fee as well, so it might be best to cancel once and see how things go.
Unless it’s an extremely popular club, I don’t think it would be too late to book again once you’re able to get in touch with her.
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