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Feb 18, 2022 21:23
Thank you for answering my earlier question about a “handsome monthly papa.”
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I’m still in my 20s, so people often tell me, “Why not find a handsome, wealthy marriage partner who’s good in bed?” I’ve actually had the chance to date someone like that, but from watching my father and my handsome monthly papas, I’ve come to think that men like that expect their wives to be obedient and good at housework, and will cheat with other women once their wives become exhausted from housework and childcare and lose some of their feminine appeal.
I was actually told that obedience would be expected of me, so I ran for the hills right away lol.
On the other hand, my former boss told me that as long as I stayed by his side, it would be fine even if I didn’t do housework or if I cheated. I think he would give me around 200,000 yen a month. He has always had a low sex drive, so I don’t think he would do papa-katsu or have an affair either. In reality, I think whether a woman can continue looking beautiful depends more on having enough time and money for beauty treatments than on her age. I’m now around 30, but I haven’t changed much in appearance since my early 20s.
Am I being too jaded for someone who’s still in her 20s?
