There was a question about whether papas lack communication skills, but don’t you feel that women are often the ones who lack communication skills—or rather, show no interest in men?
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The woman I’m meeting for the second time didn’t ask me a single question on our first date.
She’s cute, so I’ll see her again, but honestly, I felt pretty discouraged because I thought, “She’s not interested in me at all.” I did my best to keep the conversation going, though.
How do you feel about having a long-term relationship with someone like that?
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Questioner… you’re going to meet him again even though the conversation keeps dying out?
Choosing based on looks can lead to serious trouble.
The fact that he doesn’t ask about you means he isn’t interested in you. I’m not saying this to be harsh, but you should make an offer to someone else.
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> He didn’t ask me a single question on our first date.
Huh?
It’s unusual to want someone to ask you questions.
Are you the kind of person who wants them to say, “Ask me, ask me—ask me more and more. If you don’t ask me anything, I’ll get sulky”?
I assume you’re old enough to know better, but if the conversation doesn’t flow, it means you’re not compatible. That’s a separate issue from whether he asked questions.
I’m not sure why you’d enjoy going on a date with someone you can’t have a lively conversation with. But if most of the women you’ve met so far have been like that, I think you should consider that the problem may lie with you.
This isn’t about thinking it over so you can feel depressed. You should think about why conversations don’t flow and why the other person seems reluctant to be there with you—and then work on improving that.
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Regardless of whose fault it is, I can’t imagine having a long-term relationship with someone I can’t keep a conversation going with.
On the other hand, I think you’re truly compatible with someone you can spend a long time with and still feel comfortable, even when neither of you is talking.
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“If you’re not interested in someone, that usually means you don’t like them that much, so I think it’s only natural not to consider a long-term relationship with them.”
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It’s not just about physical compatibility. You also need to be compatible on a basic level—being able to enjoy conversation, even boring small talk, or simply share the same space in comfortable silence.
It’s important to develop the ability to recognize and find someone you feel relaxed and comfortable with.
At the same time, you need to become someone who can make the other person feel relaxed, comfortable, and able to enjoy the time and space you share.
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If we can’t enjoy a good back-and-forth conversation, I don’t think dating them would be much fun, so I just end things after dinner with transportation covered.
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Did you want him to ask you questions?
It’s awkward when the conversation doesn’t flow, but I don’t really feel the need for someone to ask about me.
After we’re intimate, we end up having lively conversations about erotic topics, so we never run out of things to talk about.
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The other day, the moment I offered 15+, her eyes turned into dollar signs, and she started coming on to me nonstop:
“What should I call you? What’s your name? How is it written in kanji? I don’t normally do dates outside my area, but I’d be happy to go all the way to Nagoya to see you, Mr. Loser♡ How often could we meet each month? I’d love to see you as often as possible♪”
Even though she was a Type B, she ended up trying to take me home from the very first day. That’s just how it is.
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