Would it be cruel to find another papa (a male supporter) even though I already have someone who treats me well?
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I have one papa (a male supporter) I meet twice a month on a monthly arrangement. He gives me 100,000 yen per pay-per-meeting with an overnight stay, or 80,000 yen without one. I’m truly grateful, but I’ll need money for school, and there are other things I’d like to do, such as getting braces, so I’m thinking about finding another papa (a male supporter).
I suppose I could ask my current papa (a male supporter), but because of my personality, I feel uncomfortable making one person shoulder too much of the burden, so I thought I’d spread it out. However, the papa (a male supporter) I see regularly is against me finding another papa (a male supporter), and he looks very sad about it.
I intended to save a substantial amount of money through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so while I don’t want to miss this opportunity, I also feel guilty toward the papa (a male supporter) who has been so good to me. I’m torn about what to do.
I would really appreciate your advice.
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I think it’s fine as long as you make sure that papa (a male supporter) never finds out.
But be prepared, and be extremely careful not to let him find out.
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What do you think?
Personally, I’m fine with her having other papas, but depending on the woman, I might sometimes say, “I’d rather you didn’t,” just to keep up appearances.
In this case, wouldn’t it be fair to interpret “I don’t want you to find another papa” as meaning, “It’s okay as long as you keep it hidden”?
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I’ve always wondered about this. A papa (a male supporter) may tell you that you’re the only one, but that’s true for only a handful of men. Even if he says he isn’t seeing anyone else, he may still have other partners.
Why not ask the staff to hide him from your profile and quietly create another one? You need to make a living, so don’t let yourselves be misled by the words “you’re the only one.”
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It’s normal for a papa (a male supporter) to see multiple girls.
If he can give you an allowance of 80,000 yen or more per pay-per-meeting date, there’s nothing unusual about him also seeing women besides you.
As long as neither of you finds out, just get yourself another papa (a male supporter).
Besides, if he wants to have you exclusively, 160,000 yen a month (80,000 × 2 meetings) is too little. You’d want at least 300,000 yen a month, right?
That said, he’s definitely a thoughtful, wonderful papa (a male supporter) who even increases your allowance when you stay overnight.
So just apologize to him in your heart:
“Sorry, papa… I love you m(｡>__<｡)m”
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